Family traits that are not inherited...

It's all based on environment, at some point you came into contact with the trait you found acceptable and it wasn't at home with your parents.

reply to post by Raxoxane


that is why I feel it must be a differnt thing that we are born with? !

I should have grown up being a racist bigot also, like them... and even with you, growing up in SA... wow and your not like them... so we must have something else that we are born with?



even the environs were pretty much the same... but I was even as a young child... just 'observing them' and feeling at times...they had hit some button in my mind...yanno, the one where you just look and observe behaviour whilst keeping my own viewpoint and thinking that they were wrong!!

sounds strange but I actually feel that I must have been born with this disposition to begin with...