I see you have a cemented an opinion about me that gives you a warm fuzzy feeling all over.
Oh..goodness me...InTheLight. You give yourself to much credit here. Nothing warm and fuzzy about it at all. I find great portions of what you post on
here in the manner of the moral and ethcial high ground to be obscene..even pornographic.
I like to think you can see further than what you are doing but I may be disappointed here. Hence I am not necessarily posting here for your
benefit..but for the readers here to see another side to what is going on out here..for you and those from whom you have learned will never present
Ok by me...I merely make note of it for the readers.
I don't think with your tack that you are the one to correct my beliefs over to yours. You seem to lack the requisite skills and knowledge base. I
have noted this..but no problem..it was never my intention to have you or anyone else "correct" me over to their standard default beliefs.
As to hunting..my reference was to Hunting and Gathering. In many histories the male is often portraied as the primordal hunter gatherer. This is
often a falsehood...
What began to clue me into the nature of subtilties of this was two things...Occult studies...and also a book called.." Sex and power in History by
Amaury De Reinccourt.
I found this to be a very interesting book in places albeit dry but a few jewels to be found in it.
It was only later that I ran across the books and now videos by PHD Warren Farrell which further fleshed out the history by Amaury De Reincourt into
As for the video you posted, it now works two ways.(who is narrow minded?).
What...you mean ..in like manner to the video..women buy cars because they never saw an ugly man get out of one??
Are you sure you want to go down this road.
As I stated in a previous post...it is the women and female in western economically affluent social structures who determine what kind of cars are
purchased...all across the board. This is primarily a female determined economy in this arena.
"Today, of course, people are far too pragmatic to consider whether or not their nuptial plans uphold ancient patrician values. Money and
lifestyle are chief among the concerns of modern day swains. Until recently, women alone were associated with such “gold digging” ambitions and
business strategies. But drastic changes in the economy, along with other significant social and cultural shifts, have encouraged men to embrace the
time-honored practice with equal resolve."
I have seen these types of men...and most of them have one thing in common. They are feminine and have embraced the feminine positions..particularly
maintenance positions. OK by me..but I wouldnt trust most of them to feed my pets.
I also know that most women..even "Progressive " women are not interested in underwriting these maintenance costs for a male. You have yourseslf
confirmed this for me in your standard issue statement previously above about finding ones educational, intellectual and economic equal.
I phrase it differently ...women are primarily interested in marrying up the economic ladder..not down it.
I dont have any use for feminine men..or males...nor such females. I have use for women..and that is not it.
LOL LOL LOL>..you would be quoting vanity fair...I put that magazine in with Cosmo...and other tabloids.
As to pornography ...your study tries to make a point but does it only one way..and ignores the other event happening out here all across the
board..but does not mention it for what it truely is...Objectification...
"Sex objects...success objects."
I knew this when you went down this road and I told you in advance.
You have not provided me with your definition of Pornography.
I will give you Warren Farrells definintion of it...and it took me some time to have it sink in because of standard issue programming.
Access to dreams, beliefs , Fantasies expectations...cheaply/inexpensively...easily ...without work and without RISK or another way...without
Now ..InTheLight..I am going to "Illuminate " this Objectification for you in a manner for which none of the feminists are ever going to be want to
do. Also in a manner for which most of the males out here cannot vocalize....
The woman in the video I posted was not interested in the man until she found out what kind of car he was driving. Only then could she be bothered to
give him a second look. This is objectification. It is also obscene. It is pornographic in that she is objectifying him as a success object...now
worthy of her consideration. He must first prove or demonstrate himself worthy of her consideration. I call this "Try Outs." like trying out for the
baseball or football team..sports conditioning.
Becky from my above post would often say or state..." A man can have me but he is going to have to pay full price." When it finally dawned on me the
extent to which she was carrying on ..I had a good laugh. Granted ....back then it took me some time to figure out what she really was. But today
...like Carol and Virgina...she has the strength of her convictions while growing olde alone...and threadbare. All the liposuction has left her
without any bloom..even in her olde age...and no fall back skills or knowledge. All her maketability was in the physical ..not real life skills.
Now ...we dont think today ..because of textbook male non thinking ..of these women being obscene ..even pornographic..but that is exactly what it
David...his wife cannot create a home where he is happy to come home..does not come in last behind the pets...but every other precidence happens
including the pets..but the for the one who takes first place RISKS for all this to happen for others without work and without RISKS. This is obscene
Work is the only place where he finds comfort and structure It will kill David to retire. Kill him dead....this is obscene and pornographic.
This is not strictly David's wifes fault. It is also his fault for not being able to identify the nature of the problem. To busy running touchdowns
to think it through to a solution. But it takes two to tango.
As I have been trying to clear up...there is much more to life out here than sex and sexuality. What I find so disappointing when dealilng with many
women..is that this is the best they have ...when the going gets rough ...or difficult.
I will further ask you this question, InTheLight, for yours and the readers consideration since I dont see it in any of those studies and surveys.
What is the ratio of men to women working in the porno industry?? And furthermore ..why is that?? This concept is hardly ever mentioned when playing
the blame game you and others are want to do. It is women by far..
Think that one through...carefully..
Nonetheless ..I don't recommend anyone out here to define themselves by their sex and sexuality as who they are.
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