No, I don't have a crush on the girl. I am not that attracted to women. I don't feel comfortable living in a house where girls are treated with
disrespect, and she was talking to me about it on her own initiative.
The details would be the guy not letting her talk to his room-mates, checking her phone, micro-managing her, telling her what to do, forcing her to
follow his belief system (which is not a good one, I have known him for years and he is paranoid and doesn't trust anyone) and forcing her to be
friends with benefits even though she doesn't want that.
Women's rights are a big issue to me, and it makes me sick to see them being treated like slaves, especially since I have had a lot of great friends
who are girls.
I can also see how it could be considered the correct option to mind my own business...
But to me, it is a human rights issue, and I am uncomfortable with it in my house. I have girls over to hang out here as friends, and I want them to
feel like they are accepted and just as important as the men here.
Continuing on the mind my own business tract, I don't know what to think about that. Some girls like being abused or controlled. It reminds me of
slavery. I guess it might not be my job to try and convince plantation owners to get rid of their slaves, but what if I had a room-mate who owned a
slave and treated him badly?
On a side note, what if people were doing coc aine in my living space and I was uncomfortable with it? These are all relevant questions. And I
really appreciate those who asked for more information.
I mean honestly, maybe I should wait 100 years or so until men and women are equal and then go out in society. I tend to notice a lot of behavior I
would consider as an extremely inappropriate way to treat another human being, but other people can't see it as easily because they aren't aware of
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