posted on Jan, 15 2013 @ 03:28 PM
I think he's trying to put everyone into a hypothetical situation with the OP.
On one side, you treat the woman right and she keeps wanting, expecting, and taking more.
On the other side, you treat the woman right for the most part, but knock them down(figuratively) from time to time. This way they keep wanting more
and keep coming back to you.
Basically I took this as the person in the OP was the nice guy that was taken advantage of and is thinking that he should be more like men in abusive
relationships that keep women thinking that they can't do better so they keep coming back.
OP, there are women out there that do love the nice guy... I am waiting for one myself, you may just have to wait for them to get tired and try