Hey there OP,
OK, first, I am a guy - a 24 year old guy at that. I have been happily married for 3 years now.
There is nothing wrong with not being interested in sex, in my opinion, so long as your partner doesn't care either. I am not that way. I have a very
strong sex drive and had to find a woman that shared that in common with me. My wife is awesome because we have about the same drive. I have a little
more than she does, but the point is that we are balanced. Balance is key!
At the same time, I know that some people have a low sex drive because of abuse or trauma. I won't ask you to share anything so personal on here, but
consider whether or not that could be the case for you. Second, I know some women that have never experienced a proper orgasm. They aren't interested
in sex because they have never been satisfied even once in their life. Consider that also. Finally, I know yet more women that are not into sex
because they don't feel comfortable with their body. They are nervous, anxious, embarrassed of how they look. Consider if any of these apply to you.
If none of them apply then you probably just have a naturally low sex drive and like I said, there is nothing wrong with that necessarily.
Hugs: If you always hug people with one arm (the "side hug") then you are in fact "hugging wrong." At least, you are hugging your partner in a strange
way. Side hugs are for friends, or at work, or church, where you are afraid of sexual harassment lawsuits. Front to front hugs, or front to back hugs
are for sexual mates, partners, boyfriends, girlfriends, etc. I find it hard to believe that you have never seen a proper hug before, or "don't know
how to hug."
I hate to use TWILIGHT as an example, but THIS is how you hug someone you really care about: youtu.be...
Be open and honest with yourself about your apathy toward sex. Is it natural? Is that your natural drive, or has experience caused a dip in your
Thanks for sharing and I hope this helps.
edit on 15-1-2013 by DarkATi because: (no reason given)