If you had to choose between saying "yes" to what someone/life asks of you and saying "no" to whatever someone/life asks of you for the rest of your
life, which would you choose?
Think of the positive and negative.
If you keep saying "no" - disagreeing to everything, you would not be able to have new experiences it seems, you would just be saying no to all of
your friends, family, and new opportunities that enters your life. You would also probably get into a lot of conflict/argument since you would always
be disagreeing with what everyone had to say, and probably a complainer. You would have to be apathetic not caring about suffering people saying "no"
on the request to help them. The positive thing is that you can at least feel unique and never have to worry about being controlled.
Now, if you had to keep saying "yes" - agreeing to everything. You will sometimes be forced to do things that you would not like to do. Would would
also not be able to reveal to much of yourself to anyone in order to avoid conflict. You would have to sometimes be "fake" , "pretend", just to keep
the harmony among you and others. The positive side to this is that your roles in life would quickly be changing, you would be a new "person" all the
time and life will be fun and dynamic. You will also be able to be compassionate helping people who are suffering. You will also have many new
experiences, but you may feel like you are being "controlled" at times.
Which would you rather prefer if you were forced to choose and why?
edit on 9-1-2013 by arpgme because: (no reason given)