I don't think of any of us can know the truth of those questions. We can only know what feels true for each of us, individually. (But, I could be
wrong

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I have always "felt" since I was very young that I came here (incarnated) to "play" and to "change the world." I have not done a whole of
either, and sometimes I feel that I let myself down. When I say "play" - I mean enjoy, be joyful, blissful, compassionate, full of grace, beauty,
peace, love. Childlike and full of wonder. Appreciative. Trusting. Giving/receiving. Full of poetry and music and dance. Enjoying nature, Earth,
connection. Joyful laughter and community.
Sometimes I feel we are all aspects of onesong (universe) and we've incarnated in this space/time to experience it, and remember who we are while in
this state. I am not sure I believe this is a "school" and we are "learning" as much as we simply need to remember what we already know. Sometimes
I do believe we create our reality.
But, I will not impose my thoughts, musings, feelings, hopes or ponderings on anyone else (or even upon myself, as I am ever growing, changing), or
make someone wrong in order for me to feel right.