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posted on Jan, 9 2013 @ 06:47 AM
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Is it weird that my mind automatically read this in Dr. Phil's voice after seeing the avatar? Or did others have that happen too?




posted on Jan, 9 2013 @ 08:27 AM
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You took the words right out of my mouth!!!! Not everyone chooses to go down the medicated route or alienates their children but the media would want you to think so. Just like the media would want you to think that the USA doesn't have one of the lowest metropolitan crime rates in the World.



posted on Jan, 9 2013 @ 08:51 AM
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Oh! No need to apologize. I wasn't offended. But yeah I understand what you mean. Chemical imbalance is often misconstrued as lack of discipline and/or neglect of some sort. It's a shame really. But I think that's one of the reasons they are so prone to giving out pills as well. So many kids have been misdiagnosed that now they're not taking any chances.



posted on Jan, 9 2013 @ 10:29 AM
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What's wild is that if this were written 50 years ago, it would ring just as true, same as if it were written 100 years in the future.



posted on Jan, 9 2013 @ 12:48 PM
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Originally posted by AccessDenied
Oh no..we have not failed as parents. We have had our right to parent/ discipline taken away by the state/ tptb.
All the rights have been given to the child and the government oversees that those rights are enforced.
If a parent tries to discipline their child even in a non abusive way, the child has all the rights to complain to authority figures that they are being bullied by their parents and authorities step in and take control of the child's life leaving parents reeling.
Kids have been given free reign to do as they please with no fear of consequence. These are the ones who will be running the show when we get old.
There will be no money , or resources left to care for us in our old age, nor any respect.
Throw us out on an ice flow like in days of old when we no longer can care for ourselves. One way ticket to hell, and generation " ME" is driving the bus.
The stupid thing is, in a school setting, the opposite becomes true. A child's rights in the classroom are nil.


Gotta call BS on this. No, you can't beat the crap out of your kids, but that has never been shown to produce good kids anyway. As others have said, "we" have not failed, but a lot of parents have. I think a big contributing factor is most kids not having a stay-at-home parent (or only having one parent.). Raising children the right way is hard - sending them to someone else to supervise and prevent death for the majority of their waking hours and then drugging them into a docile stupor - well, that's easy, which is why so many choose that way.

The way our economy is (for decades now) it's difficult to not have both parents working, but the least they could do is put some effort in when they are with their kids. That's the #1 priority, and if you're failing in that, then yes, you have failed. If you think your kids will leard right from wrong by being beaten, well, PM me, and I'll send you an address where you can mail me large amounts of cash to invest as I see fit.



posted on Jan, 9 2013 @ 03:43 PM
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Interesting....I'm one of those "touchy feely" women you go on so much about. I raised mine and all are doing fine. My kids all knew where the bear did his business in the woods and the consequences of not following the rules. It has nothing to do with whether you are male or female, but upon your personal skill set. I played boys sports with the boys, did girl things with my girls. Taught them all how to fend for themselves, take care of themselves and to be a success in life. None, including my daughter, are sissies. None have raised holy cain in school or shot anyone. They all knew that besides punishment at school, there would be punishment at home. If they got suspended, they didn't a free vacation for a few days. They stayed in a cubicle in the office of the school all day and did the work they were supposed to cover that day. They were 100% held responsible for their actions. I'm 49, and trust me, I'm no dummy. ALL of my kids have IQs in the 140s and 150s. I made sure they were kept occuppied and not able to run the streets at will.

Frankly sir, I'm insulted.



posted on Jan, 9 2013 @ 03:52 PM
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Feminism is to blame for this. Because of feminism, it is more profitable for women to get married and then get divorced...take the husband for all he is worth. The future of the husband is either destitution or in and out of jail the better part of his natural life. He either lives in jail or makes the decision to split and leave...never to be found again. This breaks the families apart leaving the children with no "father figure" and no assertive authority figure....as women just don't have that aggressive tone that makes a child rethink what they are doing. I know I have 2 daughters and they don't feat their mother in the least and do not take her demands or threats seriously. I have but to speak a word of authority and they instantly listen.

So, to reiterate...men have no benefits to getting married anymore. Both parties...men and women are now working full time, and there is no one around for children, who's natural law of existence is to get in trouble. Most fathers are locked up in jail or on the run, being demonized by the feminist following mother's who orchestrated all of this disaster on her family...out of her own selfishness and greed.

The father's are called dead-beats for not giving the woman all she wants despite the insane amounts of money wanted each month leaving him barely, if even enough to survive on.

Many of the mother's use their children's money, given by the father, on themselves and then complain to the courts that they are not getting enough for the bills or a child's scholarship...pretty much whatever the woman wants...the woman gets.

So with the father's in jail, or on the run from an impossible situation, while the mother get's coddled and pampered about being such a victim...when it was her who orchestrated the whole event.

In addition, the mother's working full time and taking all of the positions that men held in the working world, thus becoming the new "bread winner", and the man, in essence, has no choice but to be the new "wife". This is all about emasculation of the man...and nothing more. After all is said and done, the child has no one left but themselves and their troubled friends who are in the same situation.

This was all a plan from the beginning.

Let feminism hide behind the facade of womanhood, ridicule women who do not support the movement, empower the female, while removing all rights from men....of their money, their jobs, property and the rights to their own children. Pretty much, just destroy the will of men.

This will split up the American and UK families....make criminals out of their children or send them to their deaths fighting wars of lies, make weak-willed fathers that will be easy for the police state to control and destroy. Give women everything.... and when the police state is setup....take everything that was given to the women ....all back.

True equality will be established then....as we will all be obedient cattle or all be in a FEMA prison.

I would personally like to thank all of the women who supported this Feminist crap. I hope you are happy with what you have traded for your own selfishness and greed. You have traded America and American families for your own financial gain.You have used and abused husbands for some story from the 20's ...in a time they nor you existed and you have punished today's man for something he didn't even do to you.

You have stolen his children, had him imprisoned for not giving you your money, (you can say it's all about the children, but this is just another lie and both women and men know this), you use your own children as crowbars into a man's wallet. After destroying one man...then it's on to the next.

You then get pampered by other women, about what a jerk the husband is. Great job!
Far be it from a feminist to be able to manipulate others.


Source = End of Men/Wordpress



“We can’t destroy the inequities between men and women until we destroy marriage.” – Robin Morgan (ed), Sisterhood is Powerful, 1970, p.537




“No woman should be authorized to stay at home and raise her children. Society should be totally different. Women should not have that choice, precisely because if there is such a choice, too many women will make that one.” – Interview with Simone de Beauvoir, “Sex, Society, and the Female Dilemma,” Saturday Review, June 14, 1975, p.18



The ONE AND ONLY THING that kept them from being able to take America was our strong family fabric. The mother had responsibilities to raise children, which despite what feminists say....is a very honorable job. They showed the kids the way of life and taught them things like mercy, trust and compassion.

These things are now, not only foreign to the children, but they are foreign to the (supposed) mother's as well.

There is a "gay" agenda as a result of splitting the families up as well. Why not support gays? Once the family is destroyed, campaigns to make straight people look like kooks, and gays the normal way of life, will ensure that there are no more families created.....population control...self inflicted.

This is why children are nuts today....FEMINISM IS TO BLAME!

Here is a clip from the late Aaron Russo who was close personal friends with the Rockefeller Family.
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posted on Jan, 9 2013 @ 09:13 PM
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EXCUSE ME.

You need to STOP blaming Feminism, and or women, for all that's wrong in the world. Feminism enables women to work and support their children - that MEN routinely abandon.

You want finger pointing? I can do it too. If anyone's to blame for family destabilization it is MEN. Who don't want to do what they signed up for and would rather chase other women, look at porn, or simply leave the family.

You get married and have kids? YOU MADE YOUR BED YOU LAY IN IT. Male and female alike.

Your wife is fat now, from kids? LIVE WITH IT. She's a crabby witch, from dealing with the brats? LIVE WITH IT. You damn well KNEW what you were getting into - DEAL.

Very few women with small kids are going to leave a man just for laughs. It puts her, and the kids, in a far worse economic situation. No, most marriages break up AFTER kids and the man cheats.

I am SO GRATEFUL for Feminism because it gives me a chance to WORK and not be dependent on any asshole man.

I am SO GRATEFUL for birth control and abortion so I won't have to be stuck with any asshole kids.

This is why more and more people are going Child Free, especially females. So we don't get stuck in this crappy life where the men have it made and the women *are maids*. And no nasty snot nosed kids to deal with - best of all.

You wanna fix society? MEN need to step up, not women.

You wanna live like a party boy with no responsibilities? DO NOT HAVE KIDS. And once you do - you'd better know that your life is OVER and you're going to have to suck it up and DEAL WITH IT. You can't put it all on the woman.

And you need to STOP BLAMING women for everything. We get stuck with so much crap as is - and then you're going to blame us?

This is how Feminism came about. It's not some secret plot. It's simply because WE ARE SICK OF YOU AND YOUR BS.

For Parents: You need to be FAR MORE STRICT with your kids. It's that simple.






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posted on Jan, 10 2013 @ 12:51 AM
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Originally posted by Zinky
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First part out of 2
I am so glad you responded... so much fodder to work with here LOL.

Shall we begin?



EXCUSE ME. You need to STOP blaming Feminism, and or women, for all that's wrong in the world. Feminism enables women to work and support their children - that MEN routinely abandon.

Men leave, as mentioned in the aforementioned post (that you apparently didn't read or at least comprehend), they leave because they are fighting a battle, in court, against women protected by the government, which is a no win battle..women are spoon-fed everything. You want men to stick around? Fight your own battles and don't depend on a million feminists groups or the government to fight them for you. It's called "EQUALITY", something you women STILL need to search the dictionary for and learn the definition of.



You want finger pointing? I can do it too. If anyone's to blame for family destabilization it is MEN. Who don't want to do what they signed up for and would rather chase other women, look at porn, or simply leave the family.



Really? Men are looking at porn rather than their wives? Just who are they looking at in these porn videos?



That`s right....WOMEN! Women who want their money. It`s all competition with you women. Who can get the guys money first?

Although there are "bad apples" in every bunch..overall, this is no more than stereotyping, and more media propaganda to destroy the credibility of men...

It is proven without a shadow of a doubt that women cheat more. Why?

Because women get approached 20,000 times by the time they are 20 years of age, men get hit on by women 19,000 times less a year, than women get hit on by men?

For women there is much more of an opportunity, and in the spirit of "teaching men a lesson via feminism"....women do this quite often. You are a blatant liar...and the world...men and women alike knows it. The greater opportunity for women to cheat has been "common sense" since the beginning of time. It is only YOU, that doesn't realize this. Either that, or you are that naive.



You get married and have kids? YOU MADE YOUR BED YOU LAY IN IT. Male and female alike.

It is so funny that you act like women need to take responsibility for their part in this as well. What a laugh!

This is why I am warning men today to NOT have sex with women. It is never a woman who will suffer from making her bed and lying in it. With the help of of hundreds of Feminists groups and the government...only the man will suffer from this. It is HIM that stands in court getting screwed...never a woman.

A woman has the choice to abort a baby if she doesn't feel like she is ready for it...SHE CAN ACTUALLY MURDER A BABY IF SHE IS NOT READY TO RAISE IT AND THE GOVERNMENT CREATES HOSPITALS FOR HER! If a man is not ready...he can't even say "No Child Support". The woman gets richer and he get's poorer...so pretty much, I do blame feminism and I blame it passionately!



Very few women with small kids are going to leave a man just for laughs. It puts her, and the kids, in a far worse economic situation. No, most marriages break up AFTER kids and the man cheats.



No one said they did it for laughs....they do it for PROFIT!IOf a woman today leaves a man with a child how will it leave her financially destitute...PLEASE TELL ME?


That is what I am talking about, you are just speaking words with no real content.

No one is laughing,...OK, yes the woman is `technically` "laughing" all the way to the bank, but only at the expense of the husband. Because only she is going to get hundreds of thousands of dollars out of this.


Again...I blame your kind! (Feminists) I can't stress this enough.

Please respond back to me, as I have an overwhelming amount of data , some straight from the mouths of feminists (bragging rights, I guess) that I want to spill out here...I just need provocation.

Really. It will be a lot of work as there is so much of it. I say to you..BRING IT!

I am not very active unless someone challenges me. However, when they do....I have fun as well.

Your responses are based on watered down opinions...bring some legitimacy would you?



I am SO GRATEFUL for Feminism because it gives me a chance to WORK and not be dependent on any asshole man.

I have never discounted the fact that women should be able to work and make their own money. I thank you, however for the part where you called us men "assholes"...as this is a Freudian slip, revealing your motive for the "HATE" of men, rather than equality itself. By the way, maybe you should wake up from the 20's and join the 21st century, as no man has oppressed women today and no woman has been oppressed in his day and age.. We actually have "color TV's" now ...did you know this? I don't want to shock your system too much.



I am SO GRATEFUL for birth control and abortion so I won't have to be stuck with any asshole kids.


Notwithstanding your calloused,`` less than female`` description of children, most women..(again as you did not read my post) conveniently "forget" to take that pill, and it ALWAYS make them more financially secure than ever. Women even get "Welfare"...so long as there's no man in the house.I bet you no MAN would ever forget taking the pill ha ha ha...women are either stupid en masse...or they are plotting.

Are you having fun? I am having fun! I want you to respond back more. Give me a reason to lay out some proof and statistics. I haven't even gotten a chance to add the proof of feminist statistics that were doctored and proven to be so.



Part 2 below...
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posted on Jan, 10 2013 @ 12:52 AM
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Part 2 continued...




Your wife is fat now, from kids? LIVE WITH IT. She's a crabby witch, from dealing with the brats? LIVE WITH IT. You damn well KNEW what you were getting into - DEAL.


Your compassion for the women,.... that you feminists profess to represent, just baffles me. You seem to have as much hatred for the standard woman as you do the standard man. Furthermore, I never once said my wife was fat...she is actually a normal size and she hate you and all that you represent. You are a cancer to her kind...that is...a normal woman.




This is why more and more people are going Child Free, especially females. So we don't get stuck in this crappy life where the men have it made and the women *are maids*. And no nasty snot nosed kids to deal with - best of all.


Again, your womanhood and compassion makes me think that this song war written just for you.



Now that we have all had a laugh t your expense for once, I will address the rest of your insane statement.

Women have not been "maids" since you have been born,..so just uses your own brain for once and stop listening to outdated propaganda. You have suffered none...nor had your mother. You, as a woman of today have had nothing but privilege, so stop your crying. We men are, oh so tired of you crying about things that you never have even dealt with..OH THE DRAMA!



You wanna fix society? MEN need to step up, not women.


You wanna fix society? Women better step DOWN!



You wanna live like a party boy with no responsibilities? DO NOT HAVE KIDS. And once you do - you'd better know that your life is OVER and you're going to have to suck it up and DEAL WITH IT. You can't put it all on the woman.



Really? Really? When you stop being a "party boy" and decide to "settle down"... I should realize that it is ALL OVER??? This is what your view of marriage is? This is what your message to men id...that if they get married, that they should accept that this is the end of all things good for them....You could not be further from the truth actually. I am glad that ...in your anger that you finally admitted it. That for men to get married today, it is the end of their happiness, yet we do not have to lie back and accept this. We can make a choice to let you wallow in your pit of sorrow and hate alone and beg for pity from one another as opposed to expecting it from us men. I personally have no pity for you or your beliefs. In fact they are worthless and have no merit.




And you need to STOP BLAMING women for everything. We get stuck with so much crap as is - and then you're going to blame us?


I don't blame women...I blame feminist...there is a difference. Women are the humans that we men have always known.

Feminists are the detestable demons and abhorring, child hating, trying to brain wash women into a hateful religion comedy schtick that you have presented here today.

Feminism doesn't not equal woman...it equals hate and disdain for men PERIOD! Hate for men from nothing from propaganda written in books from the 20's by liars and political heretics.




This is how Feminism came about. It's not some secret plot. It's simply because WE ARE SICK OF YOU AND YOUR BS.


Our BS???? You are the ones taking us to court and stealing our children! Stealing our money and wanting alimony and child support. You don't even have to prove how much you pay a month for a child. What have men done to you????

Really!

What BS are you talking about?

What argument do you have about men that can cover all men stereotypically?

The court thing about women...that is a stereotypical and proven FACT!!!

This does happen in court daily!..
The cheating thing that YOU proposed..well, that happens on both sides. Women do it more, as the opportunity is there a thousand times more than men,. Just agree and don't embarrass yourself further.




For Parents: You need to be FAR MORE STRICT with your kids. It's that simple.


For parents...I empathize with you. You have tried your best, yet no longer can you discipline your kids without "government intervention ". There is no way for a parent to raise their kids when the government protects the kids and the least bit that a parent does is considered child abuse.


I will correct you (for the umpteenth time), I am not blaming women..I am blaming Feminists!

Those women who are more man than man, (WHO WILL ULTIMATELY SUCCUMB TO THE MALE SUPERIORITY BY FORCE OR OTHERWISE )..

You, are whom I speak of.

Your words are a joke.

The government dragon protecting you, however....we are taking seriously!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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posted on Jan, 10 2013 @ 01:12 AM
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Greetings ATS

You did not fail as parents , its the General consensus that labels us people with ADHD as Insane, Mentally retarded or just cold blooded murderers , While the fact remains that most of the people with ADHD would trade in al the gold in the world to be normal , or atleast be treated as equal as most of our country's Constitutions demand , this is most defenatly not the case.

I was bullied a lot as well , also beaten up a lot by groups , but my parents always supported my choices no matter what , i honestly cry when i think of how blessed i am with them , they tought me Value and to always do your best.
School was a real hell for me , too much distractions , so i was real happy when i was old enough to leave , i got a job when i turned 18 in a minus 25 degrees storage facility , saved 30.000 Eu in 5 years , got a mortgage and bought my own house all by myself , things would never imagine of being able to with my condition.

Sadly for me these events did not leave me untouched , i hardly trust people anymore exept my friends and family , not paranoia , but i have a very negative vision about how people think about me because of low self esteem because i was put in this "box" and labelled as "less equal "
And how would i ever be able to have a relationship if i hate a part of me and nothing in my mind can understand some one might actually like me.

This all however has made very commited to area's i do strive in , such as work and sports , but also to obtain knowledge about other interesting things , my Parents are my main drive in life , i try to make the best out of it because they did an amazing job in giving me the best chance possible , and i would never trow this chance out of the _

TheGreazel



posted on Jan, 10 2013 @ 12:53 PM
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Hi everyone. I'm just jumping in here. I have scanned a lot of the posts in this thread.Not all.
It was the title of the thread that got my attention. I do not want to step on any toes but this is just my two cents worth.
I believe that there is a God and that he watched over this nation and protected it for a long time. Then in the generation before us they formally threw God out. I think we have been taken over and poisoned and taught false doctrine by government and the Dr, Phills of this world. We have all failed to one degree or another and we cannot in all fairness point the blame to any one source. But when the atheists of this country began weilding their political might to throw God out of our nation and conscience, the christians should have rose up from everywhere and demanded the expulsion of those political hacks.
Now God has given us over to the evil and we are witnessing the fruits everytime a mass shooting occurs and everytime a serial killer stalks. I believe there are consequences to a people who throws God out and allows perversions to become mainstream. I have spent some time repenting of my own short comings. I suggest everyone do the same thing. There is only one conceivable outcome to a situation which we find ourselves in.
I wish you all well and that each of you strengthen your relationship with God.





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