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Originally posted by Meldionne1
Happy homemaker , how old are you? And I mean no disrespect, but I'm curious. ..because I see a 55 year old man rushing in to be your " knight in shinning armor" . And I see you happy to get away from your current situation,...until...you realize he may like you or want more from you than you want. Please have a secondary back up plan if this doesn't pan out. ....again, I mean no disrespect, but I see an anterior motive .
And, ...you said you have a brain tumor? So.....I hope you are doing something about that and not running from your health issue? ( but no need to answer, just a suggestion)
Originally posted by bourbon2nite
Are you driving without a license? You would have been ordered not to drive with this diagnosis.edit on 1/7/2013 by bourbon2nite because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by bourbon2nite
Do you have your own computor? If not will you have one available to you when you arrive at your destination? Can we expect you to update us and discuss the outcome of this trip with us in this thread? Make sure that manhater is available to join in the discussion.
Originally posted by butcherguy
reply to post by Manhater
You should tie her up until she wises up a bit.
So many people disappear each year. So many people are found murdered, as a result of going to meet 'someone'.
It is a very risky thing she is doing. I feel for you. It is tough knowing that a loved one is going to do something risky and they will not listen to your advice.
I'm a very, very paranoid person by default due to past trauma. I want to stress that this isn't something I just willy nillied out of the blue. I have a child to think about. I can't put myself in danger because I have her to think about.
(a Horror writer mind you-wonder where he gets his ideas from or maybe your next on his list of books)
Originally posted by Manhater
I never said you were faking, you just let it consume your whole life. [I can't do this, and I can't do that, and when someone asks you to do something, it becomes oooh this]. What I am worried about, you are not only putting yourself in danger but you are putting my well being and your daughter's well being in danger by letting this guy A) come to MY house in the first place (a Horror writer mind you-wonder where he gets his ideas from or maybe your next on his list of books) and B) if you even make it that far, to your daughter's, her whereabouts. Where's her safety? The only person you are thinking about in all this, is yourself.
What's to say he takes care of you after he lets you see your daughter, he already knows where she's at, and what's to say he doesn't go after her next, and then after he's done with her makes one more stop to my place?
You can tell me he's safe, this and that until your blue in the face, I still don't trust him.
This guy is driving from one state, a bit from where I live, to my state, to your daughters state and then to your friends state. Then he's going to drive back?
Do you not see a problem with that?
You don't this guy from Jack Adam, you are only going by what your AKA co-worker suggested and is his her friend, That you knew 10 years ago.
Please.
That's my concern.
Originally posted by MountainLaurel
reply to post by happyhomemaker29
Sadly it doesn't sound like you and your sis are going to agree on this decision.......but ultimately it is YOUR decision to make.
I can't imagine living in a home your not welcome in is good for your health. She wants you out of HER home, she doesn't want to meet the person you are driving with at HER home. Her logic is paranoid, IMO....sorry Manhater...your sis has provided information about her health, her plan and her reasons for making this trip in a well thought out manner.
The odds are much more likely that this KNOWN man just wants to take a road trip, make a new friend, and go visit his old friend....he also wants to collaborate with your sis on a writing project....what better way then on a long road trip to do this ! It's highly unlikely his intention is to harm you, your sis or your daughter.....old "hippie" writers aren't generally "serial killers".....
I hope your sis will look at the information you have provided and reconsider her position against your decision....
Have a wonderful trip and visit with your daughter....hope you and your sis work through this before you go...
Originally posted by Manhater
If anybody in their right mind thinks that this is safe, you need some serious help. She can take a train or a bus to get to her destination safely without any recourse of her actions. She'll be on the road, change her mind and I'll get the call. What else is new...Whatever, this time she's on her own. I have a life and her and her antics are not going to interfere. Period. She wants to be stupid, she can learn from her lesson.edit on 8-1-2013 by Manhater because: (no reason given)