This sounds genuinely paranormal, in my opinion. But you have probably already reached that conclusion. The first thing that worries me is that your
friend may potentially still be around. I say this wondering if the reason he stuck around has something to do with that particular woman, or maybe
even the relationship between yourself and this woman. It is my belief that most people do not stick around after they die, unless there is a very
tempting reason that is pulling them back. It usually has to do with that person not being able to accept something they have done, or they cannot let
go of something or let go of certain emotions that were very strong on earth.
Was he devastated by the break up between himself and the woman in question? I think that he may have told you something regarding this, or you may
have found something out another way, and I have this nagging feeling that you have some idea as to what is causing this that you did not share with
the rest of us. I apologize if I am incorrect, but it is just a feeling. As far as your options...hmm.
I agree that it is possible he does not like the way you are treating her. You do not act as if you are generally in love with her, and this may have
something to do with it. Or maybe this will end if you break off the relationship. Or maybe your friend is going to need some help crossing over to
whatever is on the other side. If you know anyone who is psychic, or sensitive, maybe you could get them to come in and see what they sense. This
would be the quickest way to get answers, although I suppose there are other options.
I think the most likely explanation is that, since the spirit is at the woman's house, it may not have anything to do with your relationship with her.
Even if this seemed to have start when you two got together, he could have been there all along, but remained unknown because he was simply attached
to this woman. And then it pissed him off when you began to lie with this woman, in the Biblical sense of the word, because his love for her, or
attachment to her, is what has kept him on earth to begin with. I think I should mention that I am not an expert, nor am I psychic or sensitive.
Occasionally I will pick up on something, and I know that these abilities are available to me, but I choose to block them out. I know they are
available to me because I had them as a child to a small degree. I just feel that there are many negative consequences associated with switching these
abilities on, although I also believe that many of the negative side affects are triggered by a person's own subconscious mind, but that is for
another thread, haha. I really hope this gets resolved, for the sake of all 3 of you.
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