posted on Jan, 7 2013 @ 04:01 AM
Originally posted by IceHappy
reply to post by magma
NOBODY has a right here to judge me UNLESS YOU WERE raised by sex sex couples in a small town!
Technically, only a Judge has the legal right to act as Judge, and only a Jury has the legal right to render Judgement against you, should you be
involved in a criminal or civil dispute(A Judge can truly Judge you if you go with a Judge trial and forego a Jury).
As for everyone else, they sure as heck can form an opinion on you or anything else for that matter. I don't know, this might be just my own
observation, but when a person say's "don't Judge me", that is often the time you should(or should steer clear of them). We all face our own
personnel demons, and the Lord knows how selfish narcissistic/psychopathic parents can be. But you are you, your own unique perspective point in
I have a sad feeling that the reason you didn't have a boy was because it would force you to face some things you don't want to face. In reality,
children aren't that difficult. All you have to do is be there for them, keep your word and make sure they are doing all right. The only difference
between boy's and girl's is perhaps hobbies to a degree(depending on the individual child). So with a boy you take them out hiking, fishing, but
really you should see what they like, and what they mostly want is just to observe/hang out sometimes.