If I may direct your attention
To this thread
Originally posted by Unity_99
reply to post by sk0rpi0n
You really are using that argument?
The short term marriages he is referring is called RAPE by everyone else.
Living outside the west.... what about western women consenting to being "picked up" in bars and consenting to "one night stands"? Is it "rape".... or a general lack of morality on both consenting, "courting" partners???
But.... from a non-religious point of view.... what about those bar pick ups and one night stands? Or is it an urban legend with no basis in reality?
Sexual freedom in the west is the greatest thing since sliced bread.
It takes polishing, it takes smooth talking, it requires the best grooming.
I'd like to hear a Christian say that. Because I keep hearing christians complain about sexual freedom leading to promiscuity.
Being polished, smooth talking and well groomed doesn't amount to anything. Even sociopaths have those qualities. I pity women who actually fall for that.
And all married women (are forbidden unto you) save those (captives) whom your right hands possess. It is a decree of Allah for you. Lawful unto you are all beyond those mentioned, so that ye seek them with your wealth in honest wedlock, not debauchery. And those of whom ye seek content (by marrying them), give unto them their portions as a duty. And there is no sin for you in what ye do by mutual agreement after the duty (hath been done). Lo! Allah is ever Knower, Wise.
Abu Sa'id al-Khudri (Allah be pleased with him) reported that Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) sent a small army. ... ...They took captives (women) on the day of Autas who had their husbands. They were afraid (to have sexual intercourse with them) when this verse was revealed:" And women already married except those whom you right hands posses"
Hadith Muslim 8:3433
Being polished, smooth talking and well groomed doesn't amount to anything.
If you had a 14 year old daughter would you allow her to consent to marry and have sex with soldiers for thier sexual satisfaction let's say hmmmmmmmmmmmmm 12 times a day ?
I tell you what would be refreshing, is to have Muslims deplore and publicly outcast these radical preachers teaching hate and dark age methods, but you never hear that do you ?