What would be the perfect Woman or Man IYO.
How would you describe them? I am curious as to peoples determining factors.
Depending on what stage of your life you are in, you will look for various different things. If you have found your partner you may still have a
wandering eye for what you would appreciate in a partner. I am married but can still admire a wonderful woman, even though I would not pursue anything
with her or even flirt.
I even advocate talking about it with your actual partner. My wife and I sometimes talk about eye candy every now and again as we see it. It makes us
laugh at each others tastes. It also avoids the odd fight I see people go through when our eyes wander. We don't disrespect each other mind you, we
just admit that we find people attractive and so give each other cues as to what we would like for them to wear, work on, ect. I have never said hey
hun look at that hottie there, don't you wish you looked like her? I would say "wow, she has a beautiful face, or really nice butt, or she looks great
in that skirt, ect. It is not like our thing, we just don't avoid the obvious. We mostly mention people we saw or met that the other did not see
themselves. If we are together we usually just know.
My wife gives me a sense of her taste in guys as far as cologne, clothing, physical attributes and what not. When I get too fat she mentions muscles
more often, placing an innuendo as to my need to work out and get back into shape. It is all loving and I have never taken it as offensive, she loves
me and I her.
So Anyways, I find myself really digging older women. Tall red heads. Not too much makeup. Maybe some wine red lipstick depending on their complexion.
I like curly red hair, some freckles, mature, mystic, smarter than me, taller than me.
I have never been a cheater. Ultimate test is that this exact sort of woman just walked in and I didn't really even think about her until she left. I
called my wife to say hi, and kept on working. It wasn't until she left that I noticed how attractive she was. So if you are feeling guilty don't.
There is nothing wrong with admiring beauty. It releases you from its hold over you. Just admit it and move on.
I have not had a single type of woman I admired. It has changed as I changed.
So, ATS, what is your ideal partner. Mind and body?
edit on 28-12-2012 by zedVSzardoz because: (no reason given)