Originally posted by sconner755
reply to post by nixie_nox
Society has shifted drastically to remove the polarity between men and women. Women are taught to be more like men, and men are ridiculed when they
exhibit masculine traits.
I haven't seen any ridicule going on. And women are not taught to be like men, they just have more opportunities now, to be able to do what they
should of always been allowed to do.
The lack of polarity in relationships is what kills attraction, and kills the relationship. The way to be a great father isn't to bake and
play with dolls. The way to be a great father is to be willing to die to protect the kids' mother.
What is he going to have die to protect me from? a grizzly bear? This must be an example from your archaic thinking. Children need their father's in
their lives, to wrestle with them, feed them, teach them things, to be there for them, just like the mother. They can't be there if they are out
waiting for imaginary grizzly bears.
To be so committed to taking care of your family that nothing else matters.
This is a role of both of the parents, not just the father.
When a kids' mom feels safe, the kids will feel safe.
Kids feel safe when both parents love them. That is how they feel secure. When both parents are involved.
When men were off fighting the wars they created, it is the women who protect the homestead, not the men. So to pretend that men only defend the
household is pretty deluded thinking.
The way to be a great father is to stand and face the storms of feminine energy and be rock solid, still standing after the storm passes. To
take every test your women throws at you and say, "is that all you've got? Give me more."
And now the truth comes out. Since you use feminine energy in a negative light, you have revealed yourself to be one of the insecure, emotionally
disrupted males who thinks feminine energy is bad. Because it removes the male privelage and power. That you see instead of the benefits of being
equal, you resent the loss of pure male privelage over another group of people, which is not strength, it is weakness of the worst kind. Only weak
people need to feel superior over another to feel better about themselves.
Not only do you want to oppress the other sex, you also oppress other males, who do not feel the need to be the macho male, ,who are secure enough
that they don't need to be privelaged in order to feel fine with themselves.Because masculinity as you defined it, is impossible to live up too. No
man can be GI Joe anymore than any female can be Barbie.Not only are you, the supposed masculine male, a failure toward the female sex, you are
failure to other men, by deciding that certain values are the only ones that are admirable and should be lived up too. You want to rigidly define what
a male should be, and expect everyone to live up to them, creating great anxiety. That you want to force everyone to live up to these standards and
depict feminism as equal by "demasculating" men, instead of seeing it for what it is, making them equal.
Unfortunately, in today's world you see so many "sensitive" men who are insecure,
Actually it is the macho man that is insecure. Who is so threatened by any male who doesn't partake in his standard of manliness that he shuns him.
That they are threatened by any male who doesn't fall into their masculine trap. Sensitive men are actually more secure, because they are not
threatened by every single thing around them that threatens their "macho" image. They don't live the insecure, anxiety driven lifestyle. Macho men,
like yourself, are so threatened by sensitive men, trying to call them gay, insecure, or anything they can think of. When the sensitive man is far
more free, to choose their lifestyle, to embrace any hobbies or ambitions they choose, who are far more free.
I was with a friend the the other day who flat out broke up with her boyfriend on the phone because he was being all wussy boy about why she
was out having a drink with me at 8 pm.
Nice try to spin, but most likely she was feeling controlled, which makes women want to run for the hills these days.
I've never seen a woman attracted to an insecure, feminine man.
Right, which is why most women wish straight men acted like their gay friends.
Of course that's just my experience. I'm sure masculine leaning women might be attracted to feminine me
Yea didn't see that one coming. Because not only do you want to determine who men should be, you want to determine who women should be, and your only
defense for your insecurity is to flame women who act like men and vice versa. Let me guess, you think men should be able to have mistresses while
women have to remain pure and virginal.