Originally posted by HerbalJunkie
Originally posted by skepticconwatcher
reply to post by Taupin Desciple
You know what else ? I just noticed that just about all of us who responded to this thread are Generation Xers. I think it's because most of us grew
up alone with both parents out of the home working and we really don't know any other way. This is fascinating. We should all look into this.
I'm gonna come back and check this thread again. I think I may be on to something.
I am generation X, but I had one parent at home.
I am divorced, and now love being single again. Quiet house, no BS superficial narcissistic agenda to impress other people.
Women are great to make babies, but most of them are not grounded today and lack feminine qualities. I am not saying this to be a jerk just an
How can a woman come home from a long day at work and have any nurturing qualities left? Answer very few, this is why we have such a huge disconnect
in our society today.
Men and Women doing the same thing and competing in the same arenas, so what is left for the family, or building a stable relationship?
Answer: Not much
Be happy with yourself, find hobbies and social groups, don't rely on one person to make you happy.
As a female - I think this illustrates what is wrong with men - they want a "nurturer". They want their mother.
I do blame women for this as well. Women love on their sons much more than their daughters. It starts young. It's not "women's lib" - its over
mothering of boys and training girls to be hard and tough and responsible workers (be it in the home or out.)
Well women are tired of all that. As another poster pointed out, about how much work there is for women compared to men. This is how Feminism came
about. We'll take a man's life too - just work by day and then relax. SO much easier.
I'm a sort of a Party Girl who likes to have fun! I am not mean or hurtful to anyone, nor take advantage. There are few men I can stand - most want
to turn me into a house wife! NO WAY! I am CF which means Child FREE By Choice. No kids, no Suburban Famblee Lifestyle. That's the worst kind of
life, for the boring sheep.
I have lots of education too and have nice work. I work, I relax. I have a nice home and sports cars. No boring junk house in Suburbia with Minivan.
Um, NO. I live in the Hipster area and only do fun stuff. I do not wipe no crap and puke off of snot nosed brats. And I can always find plenty of
dates in the Gay boys - they love me! And I love them too. We have a ball!
I certainly can get the straight men too - but they all seem to want their Mother
Forget that. Too boring. Too much work.
You know what? - for you men who do want that 'traditional lifestyle'? - you are going to have to STEP UP and 1) make plenty of $$ to afford it, 2)
STEP UP in the participation - HELP with the kids, BE involved. You want that? you gotta work for it and at it. And find a woman who wants it.
Although they are dwindling because females know the score - it's just too much damn work and there's nothing in it really, for them. You want an
eye opener? Read a "Mom's" type forum. They all regret it, the H's / Fathers don't help, there's no money and they don't give the wife no
money, it's freaking SLAVERY. The life of a breeding cow. You wanna know why women say NO to this? Go read. Might I suggest "Truu Mom Confessions".
Men wonder why women don't want to marry and have kids? Uh - because it SUCKS.
What kind of life is that? For women OR men? How horribly boring and tedious.
To the OP here - I'm sorry you feel lonely. For the sex part - don't your hands work? You wanna take a Holiday to the US, you come to Chi Town baby!
and we'll show you how to PAR TAY! Don't you pine for no boring life - you'll be setting yourself up for the worst misery you've ever known! Read
the parenting forums - read 'em and weep! Hell you can see plenty right here - people griping about their Boring Lives - married with kids. Oh also -
those people are INSANELY JEALOUS of the single and child free!!! They regret it. Take note. You can see plenty of misery right here.
Hang loose baby! Relax. You got the life. You just don't know it. Oh that's another way to know - go to a grocery store and spend 30 seconds next to
a wailing child. You'll wanna castrate yourself! And then you'll be so grateful to be FREE!!!