posted on Jan, 3 2013 @ 05:50 AM
Originally posted by Night Star
Yes tell her. She has every right to know. I just found out my husband of 33 years wants out. Wait until after Christmas though. Don't allow the guy
to keep making a fool of her. She deserves better than that.
Yes, she does deserve the truth.She is a human being with feelings and deserves much more respect than the 2 idiots are being given by keeping secrets
for them. I dont know where these others get the idea it will be a "scene" .. I mean my god, they are adults. How horrible is it to KNOW someone is
being deceived and keeping quiet about it. How cruel?!
Gee, what if he beat his kids.. keep quiet and not cause a scene. She beats her animals.. lets keep quiet about it. That person stole something ..
shhh dont wanna scene,now. Like the old days... if a child got molested.. shut the hell up, dont cause a scene.. gasp, what would the neighbors think?
What ever happened to some moral fortitude? You see someone being beaten, raped, whatever.. you stay quiet?? Freaking gutless. Good god, speak up and
do whats right. As if the kids arent aware some stuff is happening that isnt kosher. They arent oblivious since it sounds like those 2 cant possibly
even wait for a divorce to screw.. what makes you think they arent being "affectionate" when in the kids' presence?
BTW, read the thread folks.. he said he was in a no fault state.. there is no evidence to be gathered by a pI or a recording and the other nonsense
suggested that a judge would give a damn about. In the end.. the kids involved and the wife being played for a fool suffer more the longer things are
hushed up and condoned by inaction. Lets teach the kids to keep bad things secret lest they create a scene.
Good lord.. am I from another planet or something where these things arent acceptable and victims are more important than the victimizers?