reply to post by elysiumfire
The truth being told, most Americans are just tired...So tired, of Government intrusion, big brother's interference and the very minor minority of
"squeaky wheels" getting the majority of the grease!
When in reality, the ones that actually do care about our issues, and make strides daily, to correct and/or remedy them, spend so much time, effort
and money, trying to solve the least of our problems, that when a truly deserving one smacks us in the face, we are simply overwhelmed!
My opinion? Well, without all of the facts regarding this latest tragedy, It would be tough to be specific, but in light of recent events and with
much generalization, I would like to see this...
A social recession!!!
In the days of smaller, more close-knit communities, folks took care of their own problems. If there was a young man who was having problems, the
wiser elders of a town, were generally aware of them. Things weren't so guarded, and secret then. Issues were discussed at church, at town meetings,
and in social circles. Mentors would step in, or usually be invited, to assist in these situations. It was truly, a village raising the children. Kids
grew up with a very healthy repect for family, community, and God! And if a serious threat arose, the menfolk of the town would do what needed to be
done, to protect it's citizens and their way of life!
Now days, we frown on such things. We call it gossip, busybodies, and vigilantism...We rely on others to solve our issues. We medicate and label our
children if they don't fit into the little cubicle of someone else's idea of normalcy! We stopped aiding our neighbors and started suing them! We quit
socializing in face to face groups and do it from our computers. We gave up God, and just call ourselves spritualists. We believe in the idea of God,
but we can't be burdened with things like rejoicing with others who feel the same. Or meeting a few hours a week to share our good and our bad with
our friends and neighbors. Allowing those that truly care about us to celebrate or sympathize with us...I've received more assistance and blessings
from the 60 people in my church when I've needed it, than the hundreds of thousands of government employees in this country!
I recall things like Big Brothers & Sisters, and the Boy or Girl Scouts! After school activities that assisted children with a solid transition into
adulthood. Family time, on many nights. An actual dinner table where the family would commune and enjoy each other's stories and company, while eating
a good home cooked meal. Moms were ALWAYS there when you needed them! Advice was FREE from your parents and Grandparents, and whether you liked it or
not, it was good for you!
Now, we have relinquished much of those responsibilities to the Federal Govt. It started off small. Things began to get expensive. Mom had to get a
part time job. Parents couldn't afford to let their children continue with their extra-curricular activities. Kids started finding other things to do
after school. Less supervision, led to poor choices, and before you knew it, the kids were up to no good. Bad apples, were spoiling the rest of the
bushel. And before we realized what went wrong, it was too late. Something horrible had occured.
Now the Govt. which has been telling us how we need to raise our children, steps in once again. You need to pay for parenting classes. You need to
take your child to a psychologist, where he/she will be diagnosed and treated. Dr. visits and medication...The Govt. spreads our money around to this
agency and that. The drug companies and the medical professions are getting theirs. The family unit is separated further and further. Mom has a full
time job, and Dad has a second one. Even less supervision and even less money stays in the home!
We have allowed those who wish to rule us, take away every good thing that we once had. It has been replaced with feel good, over-priced past-times,
that keep us mired in the illusion of happiness. But, all the while, we are being sold out! Our families have been decimated. Our Faith has been
nearly eradicated. And our common sense, self-worth and social values are being fed to us, on a daily basis, by the media, the internet and our
politicians.
It's time to WAKE UP!
*sorry for that...Rant off...
edit on 12/17/2012 by GoOfYFoOt because: spelling/punctuation