Originally posted by Logos23
reply to post by AussieDingus
It made more sense to post what i said because you seemed unable to grasp what if anything I accused you of. My first accusation was that you "came
across" as arrogant in some of your posting which is only subjective ( look up the definition) It was an opinion....but as you have plenty of
opinions yourself I'm pretty sure I'm entitled to mine.
The only real accusation I made was that it was arrogant to presume you knew everything surrounding the reasons why your friend committed suicide and
that you knew everything about your friends state of mind.......being his friend doesn't automatically qualify you for being the authority on either.
You seem unable to go back and read your own words so I will quote them for you ...my accusation as outlined above was in response to this......
Originally posted by AussieDingus
My best friend killed himself because he went home drunk, had an argument with his partner and in the heat of the argument he said he'd rather kill
himself then be with her anymore. She replied that he didn't have the balls to do it. He then went out and killed himself to prove her wrong. BUT,
even though he was my best mate, what he did was WRONG, and just because he was my best mate doesn't change the fact that what he did was wrong. I
never had and have never since had any sympathy for him what so ever due to HIS decision,
I would like to think that this now clears up the matter......but I expect nothing more than another brick wall response from you.
This is getting tiresome...there are other conversations more worthy of my time and response. If you fail to once again understand what my accusation
was and what is was in response to.... that is your problem not mine.
You made the claim about me being arrogant in reference to the example i gave about knowing somone close committing suicide. You can change that now
to "in reference to SOME of your posts", but at the time you were refering to the post about my personal experience. You can go back and read your
own reply for proof of this if you wish ?
Yet you have replied again [despite complaining of this thread being dragged out], but still have not produced the direct quote from me that would
back up your claims of arrogance. And the very fact that this has now been explained to you at least 6 times proves that it is possibly you that is
displaying the arrogance you accuse others of. And you keep throwing in that little gem at the end of your posts which always makes me laugh how
people will keep replying to a thread that they claim is being dragged out, get what ever it is they want off there chestand then at the end say, well
i'm done talking to you, or i have nothing more to say to you, but then keep replying.
And as i explained to you in the last 2 posts of mine, if you would produce the quote that would back up your claims, then this thread would have no
need to be dragged out, as you call it. But YOU keep replying without the quote, and wonder why its being dragged out. So, either back up your words
of haivng nothing more to say to me, which means you DON'T respond again, OR, you produce the quote from me that would back up your claims and give
any future comments from you any credit. Its not that you don't have anymore to say to me, its that you don't have any valid point to make but want
to keep replying just because someone has a different opinion to you on suicide. Thats why its getting "tiresome", because you're adding to it but
with no substance to back up your claims, but you keep replying.
So i will give you one more chance. Produce the direct quote from me where i displayed aggorance at providing an example to claims that i knew nothing
about suicide or depression. But if you can't produce the quote, then why are you still replying, and contributing to the 'dragging out' of this
'tiresome' thread ?
Where's the quote, and why has it taken you this long to produce it ? But don't reply unless you have the quote, because without it your comments
have no credibility. But if you want to keep replying just for the sake of replying, then don't complain about a thread being tiresome or being
dragged !