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Originally posted by chiefsmom
From a woman's point of view, I would bring it up to her.
Maybe not starting with ATS membership, but a casual conversation about a specific subject, to see how she reacts.
My husband isn't a huge conspiracy fella. But he at least listens when I talk about some of the things I read about here.
I'm not into concrete, but I listen to him.
It's called open communication, and it does wonders for a relationship.
Originally posted by AthlonSavage
Thanks for input everyone. Have to think through this more although and i realize from your postings honesty has got to be the best policy, but recognising that timing is also important. Mabey i will leave out talking about Ats for a while, i mean its not lying its just not talking about it.
Originally posted by Hefficide
reply to post by Night Star
Yeah but you're a girl. Guys don't even hear the first 27,000 words you speak to them. FACT. For the first 1.3 years everything you say sounds, to us, like "Hey, Big Boy.....".
When guys open up? Totally different outcome.
When I first met him, he was all mysterious and cool. But then, after he talked? Not so much.....
~Heffedit on 12/7/12 by Hefficide because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by Hefficide
reply to post by Night Star
Yeah but you're a girl. Guys don't even hear the first 27,000 words you speak to them. FACT. For the first 1.3 years everything you say sounds, to us, like "Hey, Big Boy.....".
When guys open up? Totally different outcome.
When I first met him, he was all mysterious and cool. But then, after he talked? Not so much.....
~Heffedit on 12/7/12 by Hefficide because: (no reason given)
and you are embaressingly single.
Originally posted by Hefficide
reply to post by AthlonSavage
You didn't tackle her to the ground and check her for wires and NSA/CIA/FBI identification on the first date?
Amateur.
~Heff
Originally posted by Rikku
reply to post by AthlonSavage
i think it would be weird if you brought up a conversation about what websites you read.
edit on 7-12-2012 by Rikku because: (no reason given)