posted on Dec, 7 2012 @ 11:12 AM
You'd be surprised, she may be just like you but thinking the same thing, afraid to bring it up lest you think she's a nut-case.
The need for you to bring up something like ATS is probably equal to how much you are into "conspiracy theories" and other subjects typically
thought of as tin-foil hat subjects. If it's only a part-time thing for you, you can wait on the ATS announcement. If it is a big part of your
life, I think you'll want to bring it out into the open and introduce her to it. If she balks, then she's probably not for you.
It will do you no good to start a relationship with somebody (no matter how attractive) if you have to hide who you are and what interests you.
She may have enough of an open mind that you end up converting her. That's how it happened between me and my husband. When I met him (online, BTW),
he was a conservative republican. Now he's wearing tin-foil hats with me. But, do you really want to be with somebody who doesn't think anything
like you do, doesn't have your same interests, etc? There's only so much time one can spend between the sheets, so to speak, so the rest of the
time spent together should be quality time, and not time where you have to keep things you're interested in bottled up.