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Im wondering if id be shooting myself in foot if i told her i was a active member on Ats? , I mean i have to accept conspiracy theories are seen by alot of people as way out there.
Originally posted by Klassified
If you have any interest in a long term relationship with this woman, why would you want to present anything to her, other than who you really are. She needs to see the real you every time she's with you. Why start building a relationship based on anything less than honesty.
Additionally, why would you want to be with someone who can't accept you as you are, not who they want you to be. And of course, vice versa. Be upfront with this woman. If she loves you for who you really are, you have founded a friendship on honesty. If not, then you haven't wasted precious time, and neither has she.
Note that being honest, doesn't mean scare the crap out of her, and share all your wacky theories in one go. It just means don't be someone with her, that you aren't when she's not around.
Originally posted by wtbengineer
reply to post by smyleegrl
I agree with you completely on that, my wife and I couldn't be more different. But I think before you really get to know someone that well people that visit these kind of sites can seem a little scary maybe? I think it's best left for after a relationship is established and you don't care so much about things like that.