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Originally posted by Akragon
reply to post by Stop-loss!
Be you... because no one else can...
and U R Awesome!!
Fear is your greatest enemy when dealing with women...
edit on 6-12-2012 by Akragon because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by MarioOnTheFly
Chasing girls that want nothing to do with you is pointless, and will most probably make you unhappy. You have to understand, that to some...you are ugly...but to others you are beautiful. It is natural. Accept that there is out there somewhere a partner for you. She will find you when the time comes. Meanwhile....enjoy life
Originally posted by nixie_nox
reply to post by pheonix358
Fake it till you make it.
Fact is SL, people don't have confidence when you have a fear of rejection.
Stop letting rejection be an issue for you. Learn that one person's negative response has no bearing on you, and does not define who you are. don't let others dictate your emotions and feelings.
When you stop letting the fear of rejection control you, then you gain confidence.