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Originally posted by DocHolidaze
reply to post by boncho
so how many of these women are you sleeping with at anyone time? more importantly whats your high score?
Originally posted by TheForced
I think that acting like your natural self instead of being "on the prowl" so to speak is more attractive to us girls.
Being a mature male and not looking for a relationship but being available will attract females like bees to honey.
You should not ever think that someone is out of your league either. If you can make a girl laugh and hold a good conversation you would be surprised how successful you can be.
Originally posted by Druscilla
reply to post by boncho
If you're looking long-term, go with the safest most reliable and BORING option.
Boring is good. Boring is predictable. Boring you can count on to be home when you expect it to be home.
If you're looking for long term, permanent, you may as well pop the cork on the children trolley too as children will often tie you together where otherwise sayanora suckah would be sung.
Go for boring and cash in your 2.2 offspring ticket.
edit on 5-12-2012 by Druscilla because: (no reason given)
Now I feel like I'm in a rock and a hard place, because I have been secretly swooning over the one girl, but she was entirely out of my reach. Now that she is in the picture, I feel like I'm letting down the other girl knowing however, that the one is probably a better match for me.
So, I'm not getting any younger. And marriage is in the cards whether I like it or not. The problem is the initial feelings I had for the fling and the untouchable girl, were about equal when I met the two of them. Both have their negative qualities but are completely outweighed by their good qualities. I'm leaning more on the untouchable girl simply because I have a few things more in common with her, except that I have been talking about planning to move forward with the fling girl.
Originally posted by xxshadowfaxx
They all come at once because when you are looking for a girl, the law of attraction gives you many possibilities.
This is how the universe works, and most people just call it a coincidence.
I hope that one day, we will realize that our thoughts create our reality.
The same goes with job opportunities, or whatever it is you're interested in.
How many of us have noticed this happening in our lives, when we really want something, we find many opportunities present themselves..
Originally posted by Spacespider
i was lured here by my subconscious mind, by your title
my subconscious mind was disappointed
so was mini me
edit on 5-12-2012 by Spacespider because: (no reason given)
Here's the thing. What do YOU want. Forget about the moral implications for a second, and ask yourself this, completely honestly. Is girl number one someone you're going to keep, or is it just a flight of fancy because something you couldn't previously have has just literally jumped into the boat with you. Or do you see girl number two as the keeper even though she seems the easier sell and somehow less of a challenge?