reply to post by timidgal
I have a few pointers. For one thing, try to assess the situation realistically instead of idealistically. It can help you if you fall for someone and
get too emotional. I used this to help myself out today, in fact.
Another good point - you can be tactful and honest about something, this is much more useful with girls, to just ask them what is going on, or tell
them - with guys, you might actually have to be more assertive.
I would recommend in the future asking questions with an open mind (in other words, don't expect a certain answer, and listen only to be more informed
on your decision making).
Also, I have an internet addiction, so I will frequent dating sites and Facebook and Gmail and ATS *way* too often, it is like crack.
It is definitely good you decided to be exclusive, this is an important step. There. Any other questions I can help you with?
One more thing - in my age group (20's), girls stray and guys are looking for an exclusive relationship. In the younger age group, girls are even
starting to pursue guys.
edit on 5-12-2012 by darkbake because: (no reason given)