posted on Dec, 4 2012 @ 09:38 PM
Well, timidgal, I'm not a single guy (married woman, aged 51). There was a time, about 10 years ago, when I was like you. I had met some real
"winners" (and I use that term sarcastically), but then I met a guy, and went through the same thing as you.
He wanted to be exclusive, asked me to get off the dating site, and he would get off of it as well. However, 4 months into it, I found out that he
had been shopping around on those "Russian Women" dating sites, and was printing pictures of the hot ones, and corresponding with them.
I was really hurt, really angry that he wasted me time, pretty pissed off that he broke my heart, so I tossed all the printed pics of the hotties in
his face and walked out. That was the end of that.
A few years later, I met my wonderful husband. Just have to have patience, there are some gems out there, but you gotta pick through a lot of rocks
and dirt clods before you find one.
As an interesting aside, I still have Mr. Dishonest as a Facebook friend. He wanted to be friends with me. And he's been hitting me up, saying
he's still as randy as ever, and would I consider......
Ugh! Seriously?? I had to remind this horn-dog that I'm happily and faithfully married, and told him to hit up his live-in girlfriend for any
So, in the end, I dodged a bullet (as cute as he is, I still dodged a bullet). He runs around and cheats on his girlfriend, who sits at home and
apparently has no idea what he's up to.
Thank your lucky stars it happened before you got in any deeper. Dust yourself off, and continue to believe that there is one good, faithful, and
honest man out there for you.