posted on Dec, 4 2012 @ 06:25 PM
reply to post by JosephKnecht
Hi, I'm really sorry to hear about this. I know what it's like when you think or hear that the person you are with is cheating on you. Sometimes
it's hard to find out what the real truth is, but I hope that you can somehow get to the bottom of all that you are hearing.
I'm not sure what to tell you. See, asking a person does not usually go as planned. She might get mad or pretend to, but most importantly if she
wants to lie she can. How will you know if she's telling the truth? Faith and trust is important in all relationships, but because so many people are
telling you she's cheating, it's hard not to believe them. Is there any reason for them to lie? Think really carefully about it and if the people
accusing her have motives to do so.
If you ask her, explain to her WHY you are asking. Remember, though, if she is cheating, once you ask her she will be more aware that she is under
your scrutiny. Thus she will be harder to catch in the act of cheating. If you are really certain she is cheating, do a little digging. Being a girl,
I usually wouldn't suggest this but try looking through her phone. See if she's texting inappropriate things to male friends.
All in all I hope that she isn't cheating and that things get better for you!(: