OP, you wish it was that simple.
The fact is, love and friendship wont fit in any set of pigeon-holes, no matter how carefully you define them.
I wouldn't have breakfast with you the next morning, either.
Sometimes we are what we wrote...it can be defined even this way...as about me ,sorry no dark rooms.
It took me a long time, but I finally realized that you don't fully live until you let someone see those dark rooms. Those places inside where you keep your most personal thoughts and feelings.
Thinks are more complicated than you might see,rooms are bright some thoughts are dark.
If you still feel that you can't let someone in those dark rooms, that's okay. But I have a feeling you're ready now. You put the thought out there for people to talk about and think about. This notion you have that love dares not enter those rooms?
Love is many splendored things.
Someone one day is going to run into you and fall in love with you Pi. They're going to show you everything about them because they love you. They WANT you to know them. They're going to love you whether or not you let light into those rooms or not. They'll patiently wait with their hand held out, waiting for you to take it so they can walk you outside. So they can be there for you when you want to open up. They love you. They're not going to judge you or think any less of you when you show what's in the darnkess.
Originally posted by LestatIsReal
Another wonderful post! Very thought provoking. I have never had a lover, so I don't know where I stand on the matter. Can't you have the best of both worlds, though? I suppose friendship has boundaries, but I think it depends on the people as to what those are.
Another wonderful post! Very thought provoking
That depends how that true love is is like being a telepath so you have nothing to hide of and for.
Can't you have the best of both worlds, though?
Indeed it has but also that depends of how much you give and especially to whom.
I suppose friendship has boundaries, but I think it depends on the people as to what those are.