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Originally posted by JiggyPotamus
The most important thing is personality in a guy. And that is great news for most guys, considering your personality is something that you can change more easily than some of the other things that attract women.
from women, and improve those aspects first. Good luck.
Originally posted by intrptr
I don't mean rip one, I mean a little, polite one. If she giggles...
Originally posted by AnimositisominA
Real ladies men learn to do without.
Its kinda like trying to call a housecat over to be petted. You call its name and pat your lap and it slowly struts away. The minute you ignore it though, its on your chest with its ass in your face lol.
I wish it were that simple for Lambos.
but always end up cheating on the nice guy with some jerk. They always whine and moan about these jerks and wonder where the nice guys are, but the thing is, they've destroyed the nice guys because we've all become jerks because that's what they want.
Originally posted by Still Naive?
I don't want to sound like a dick here but...
If you're having a hard time scoring a chick, honestly, you're doing something wrong. I can't get terribly close to your picture but it doesn't look like you're a bad looking dude. Keep the beard tight and clean cut and change your style a little bit...
Buy a few new pair of new age jeans (not skinny jeans either), a few nice collared button down shirts and some matching shoes, maybe slightly dressy but not too much. You don't need to tuck the shirt in either but keep the sleeves pulled up. Buy you a very attractive cologne (nothing under $40) and keep your male parts down there trimmed up because after a few nights out like that, you'll at least get a major part of what you want, accomplished...and this may eventually (albeit not the best way for a relationship to start) lead to the other end that you're seeking (...the cuddling and whatnot..)
EDIT : And for the people who "refuse to change themselves for a girl" ...
Changing your personality is a definite no no ... but changing how you carry yourself and present yourself should be something you're open to, otherwise you may be forever alone...edit on 25-11-2012 by Still Naive? because: (no reason given)edit on 25-11-2012 by Still Naive? because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by smilesmcgee
Hatred of women is probably the reason you don't have a girlfriend.
Like your picture for example. When I saw it, I thought "man with an interesting hobby." or "man who likes that plane," not "rich".
Women are drawn towards men who are confident and happy.
If women are always cheating on you, it isn't just because they are women.
There are still good ones out there.
Thank god. I was unaware until yesterday i had to be rich to fly planes. Hell, i have pictures of myself with a learjet, lol....doesnt mean ive ever been in one...