I'm so sorry u have to go through this. I bet you can't think of anything else other than 'I wonder what she is doing right now, I wonder if she is
really WITH HIM?" when she is not with u. That is no way to live. You are consistantly stressed. Its unhealthy. And its stories like this that make
me want to drop my career and open up my own 'cheaters' business, like u see on TV, lol (sorry, but it just disgusts me). Let me guess, its not
just ATS telling u to leave, your friends and family were also prob telling u to GET OUT months ago. If not, they are being nice by not telling u. (If
they were for real they would have sat u down a long time ago). why? Because they can see what is going on. And u want things so bad to be like they
were, and even though they are not, u make excuses for yourself everyday as to how they are, or how things are gonna change. Guess what? They are
not. The whole foundation that makes a relationship tick, is trust. Dude, she threw that out the window the first time she step foot into that other
I know how bad u want to 'catch her in action to prove to yourself what is really going on here. But let me tell me tell u something, u don't need
to go broke hiring a detective (u thought of it, already, right?) All u need IS YOUR HEART. Think about something: u having the need to ask complete
strangers on a message board should tell u something. U don't need our responses to tell u what's really going on. U already know. What u seek is
those who have gone through similar situations and a time to heal from saying goodbye.
My point of response is to PREPARE u for what's to come. Its for u to not MAKE THE MISTAKE, AGAIN, and say, 'we made up. U will be lying to
yourself. Because the minute u grow some balls, and stand up, and resfuse to be treated this way, is when SHE IS GONNA COME CRYING back to u. And to
be honest, she prob will truly end it this time. Because u have done something out of charactor and she knows your serious. Remember one thing:
Once a snake in the grass, always a snake a snake a grass.......
Until u let this awful situation go away, FOR GOOD, will u find that special someone who WANTS TO BE WITH YOU. You. Its time you let that happen. And
its times like this that mask that, u prob think I will never find anyone. U won't, because the negative energy and crap in your life right now. As
soon as u say goodbye, and live for yourself, the universe will align and that special someone will be able to find u. Just don't look too hard
Good luck, I feel your pain, been there done that, learned the hard way, twice. Believe me, I know what I'm talking about. Now go find happiness, and
get rid of that negative crap in your life. For good!!!!and please....leave the snake in the grass...not in your bed.
Luv n light-