posted on Mar, 19 2013 @ 03:08 PM
reply to post by jziegler
He wants me to move in with him and get married but I don't know if I should
If you even have to ask, the answer is of course, NO.
He wants it all, the freedom of being single and the security of a mate. What's in it for you? His PSTD and mother don't even factor into it...this is
about YOU. You are obviously a caring and generous individual, and caring for these losers makes you feel good. These kinds of guys sense it of
course, and take advantage of it. You are definitely attracting them...probably due to a lack of self-confidence.
Have you asked any girlfriends their advice? Often, they can give it to you more straight than you'll see yourself. I've been happily married now for
9 years, my only marriage, and to my soulmate. I know my wife relies on her gal pals often for advice so I'm hoping you have that same support, but if
not, the only one stopping you is you.
I wish you the best of luck, but my honest advice is to steer clear of this guy, cast a bigger net, and try to find another fish in the sea. This guy
won't be the controller type, but also, you won't be able to reign him in, and will have to settle for not being exclusive with him. (which could lead
to other baby mamma drama, etc.). Do you even know he doesn't have kids with others? Who needs that kind of complication?
P.S. See you are now in a good relationship. Awesome.
That is what I am planning on doing. Working on myself and figuring out who and what I want in a relationship. My question to men is: Why do
they feel the need to sleep with so many women? is it a power issue?
Men don't. Boys do. Men can commit to a relationship. Boys cannot. Has nothing to do with power.
edit on 19-3-2013 by Gazrok because: (no