Everyone needs a small number of real friends you can discuss personal matters with. I have mine, a really small circle and at times I'd prefer to
make others acquaintances. I don't know or care if it would be considered mean to kind of cut certain people off, but it sure is logical..less
friends, less problems.
I sympathize! There are people who call that make me not even want to answer the phone when I see their name and number on the caller I.D. because I
know they want something. Heck, if they didn't want something they wouldn't be calling! Lord forbid that they should ever pick up the phone or stop
by just to say hello and to ask how things are going.
I've been learning to "just say NO' a lot more. If I only hear from them when they want something from me then they are not true friends and I need
not feel any guilt for refusing. It has been liberating!
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