posted on Nov, 6 2012 @ 08:43 PM
reply to post by MbretM
What you are experiencing is only a Symptom of non-focusing.. which leads to no self-control.
The biggest fact of life is that the only thing you can control is What You Do... what you think about, what you say, and how you behave.. that's
So, to get yourself out of this stuck phase.... Force yourself to focus on other things in life.. those more important things in your life.
Never, at any time in your life, should you give so much of your own power away to another person.. so that you have these types of reactions to their
action or non-action.
In which case, stand up.. breathe, decide what you are going to focus on and do it. Each time you find your Mind wanderingback to anything to do with
this girl.. STOP yourself and refocus on what's important. Ask yourself.. "Where am I?"
If the answer is stuck in the same thought patterns, then you need to refocus again. Sounds simple, but takes some effort.. which is well worth it
because you wil learn some of the most valuable lessons in life... like... Women do not want a "Klingon"... people who cling tightly to another
person for their own fear of losing them.
Be well.. Be STRONG.. Be focused. Don't be a 'victim'.. it is Your Choice.