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Originally posted by dollukka
How well you are bonded with the child ? What you give to the child emotianally it reflects back.. Kids are mirrors !
Originally posted by Destinyone
reply to post by LastProphet527
Makes me wonder what they are writing about you on facebook.....
Des
Originally posted by VoidHawk
That poor step child has a serious problem, its YOU!!
Originally posted by VoidHawk
That poor step child has a serious problem, its YOU!!
Originally posted by LastProphet527
Originally posted by VoidHawk
That poor step child has a serious problem, its YOU!!
Do you have step kids or was you a step child?edit on 5-11-2012 by LastProphet527 because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by dollukka
reply to post by LastProphet527
If he breaks your rules you can sue him.
Originally posted by calstorm
Two nights ago I made a thread after being hurt deeply by my now former step parent. I asked the mods to delete due to it being a four in the morning emotionally charged post, but is basically directed at someone who had taken the same attitude towards me that you have taken towards your step child, and it is pretty painful being on the receiving end. Sure, I probably gave him a lot of grief when I was a teenager, but he was the closet thing I ever had to a father and whether he knew it or not I loved and idolized the man. Unfortunately for me, he never saw me as anything more than the "step" child.
What I am trying to say is, no matter how difficult that step child may be right now, yo have no idea what is really going on in their head, and you may be the one person who can really make a difference in their life, for the good or the bad. It all depends on you, as you are the adult.
I honestly and truly don’t give a flying f*&^ about a grown ass child that’s 21, she’s not a child, she’s grown, so F*&^ her, her feelings and how ever she feels about me. I raised her for 15 years, I did the best I could do, I have my real kids to worry about, she can go back to hell for all I care.
Wow, if I wasn't in my 30's I would have to ask if you were my step parent because that is almost word for word what was said to me. It almost killed me. It still hurts and seeing someone else write this about their step child....
Just because we are adults doesn't mean that the potential damage you could do is any less.
15 years? That means you were a significant part of her life for the majority of her life.
YI am just going to stop right here before i brake the T&C, I am so angry right now I am shaking.edit on 5-11-2012 by calstorm because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by dollukka
reply to post by LastProphet527
Tell her you don´t alllow it in your house and if she wants to have sex to get a room. Hope you have a videocam, tell it in front of cam, you might need that later. Even if you don´t need video of the conversation at least she gets the idea that you mean it. If you own the house its your rules, if you own the house with your wife you need to have conversation with her too.
If she has steady boyfriend you can tell him he is not welcomed to have sex under your roof, use camera again if needed. If he breaks your rules you can sue him.
Sometimes you need to twist barbwire to get message understood.edit on 5-11-2012 by dollukka because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by Komonazmuk
reply to post by LastProphet527
Why is she allowed to live at home at the age of 21? More like bumming at home.
Kick the the ungrateful tard to the curb. let her preferred penis pal pay for her, stop enabling her.
I wanted to make a joke involving Steppe child, but I couldn't think of a way. I failed myself.
Originally posted by dollukka
reply to post by LastProphet527
If he breaks your rules you can sue him.
Uhh, what court takes these kinds of cases?edit on 5-11-2012 by Komonazmuk because: (no reason given)
TextWhy is she allowed to live at home at the age of 21? More like bumming at home.
i did,and dont call my freaking daughter a tard,but thanks for sharing,lol
TextKick the the ungrateful tard to the curb. let her preferred penis pal pay for her, stop enabling her
Originally posted by dollukka
reply to post by LastProphet527
She is sex addict, then get her some help for that, therapy.
Originally posted by calstorm
reply to post by LastProphet527
OK, I can completely respect that. Your expectations are not unreasonable. I just have an issue with the attitude towards her being a step child, having recently been on the receiving end of step parent rejection due to not being their "blood child." I think any decent parent would have issues with the behaviors you are complaining about.
Lay down the law but take the "step child" attitude out of it.
"step child" attitude out of it.
Originally posted by Komonazmuk
reply to post by LastProphet527
My apologies, I should've meant her behavior is tarded.
Originally posted by calstorm
Two nights ago I made a thread after being hurt deeply by my now former step parent. I asked the mods to delete due to it being a four in the morning emotionally charged post, but is basically directed at someone who had taken the same attitude towards me that you have taken towards your step child, and it is pretty painful being on the receiving end. Sure, I probably gave him a lot of grief when I was a teenager, but he was the closet thing I ever had to a father and whether he knew it or not I loved and idolized the man. Unfortunately for me, he never saw me as anything more than the "step" child.
What I am trying to say is, no matter how difficult that step child may be right now, yo have no idea what is really going on in their head, and you may be the one person who can really make a difference in their life, for the good or the bad. It all depends on you, as you are the adult.
I honestly and truly don’t give a flying f*&^ about a grown ass child that’s 21, she’s not a child, she’s grown, so F*&^ her, her feelings and how ever she feels about me. I raised her for 15 years, I did the best I could do, I have my real kids to worry about, she can go back to hell for all I care.
Wow, if I wasn't in my 30's I would have to ask if you were my step parent because that is almost word for word what was said to me. It almost killed me. It still hurts and seeing someone else write this about their step child....
Just because we are adults doesn't mean that the potential damage you could do is any less.
15 years? That means you were a significant part of her life for the majority of her life.
YI am just going to stop right here before i brake the T&C, I am so angry right now I am shaking.edit on 5-11-2012 by calstorm because: (no reason given)