Originally posted by calstorm
Two nights ago I made a thread after being hurt deeply by my now former step parent. I asked the mods to delete due to it being a four in the morning
emotionally charged post, but is basically directed at someone who had taken the same attitude towards me that you have taken towards your step child,
and it is pretty painful being on the receiving end. Sure, I probably gave him a lot of grief when I was a teenager, but he was the closet thing I
ever had to a father and whether he knew it or not I loved and idolized the man. Unfortunately for me, he never saw me as anything more than the
"step" child.
What I am trying to say is, no matter how difficult that step child may be right now, yo have no idea what is really going on in their head, and you
may be the one person who can really make a difference in their life, for the good or the bad. It all depends on you, as you are the adult.
I honestly and truly don’t give a flying f*&^ about a grown ass child that’s 21, she’s not a child, she’s grown, so F*&^ her, her feelings and
how ever she feels about me. I raised her for 15 years, I did the best I could do, I have my real kids to worry about, she can go back to hell for all
I care.
Wow, if I wasn't in my 30's I would have to ask if you were my step parent because that is almost word for word what was said to me. It almost killed
me. It still hurts and seeing someone else write this about their step child....
Just because we are adults doesn't mean that the potential damage you could do is any less.
15 years? That means you were a significant part of her life for the majority of her life.
YI am just going to stop right here before i brake the T&C, I am so angry right now I am shaking.edit on 5-11-2012 by calstorm because: (no
reason given)
Like I told her father…I look at your kids the same way I look at my kids, I just want them to start getting ready for life early before they reach
an age in which they can’t get back. I can’t keep seeing your daughter having sex with all theses duds with all these viruses in the world, all
these boys want is some sex, they don’t care about her, they don’t love her, they just want a nut…Period. your child is an 10th grade drop out,
went on a summer job for 1 day and didn’t go back, she cant even walk to the store for her self which is one block away but can walk 18 blocks to
F&^%.
Every body else has an high school diploma except her in this house ,so I really cant see the patients I’m suppose to have…I just really
cant.
edit on 5-11-2012 by LastProphet527 because: (no reason given)
