posted on Nov, 5 2012 @ 05:18 AM
Ok, one of the most important aspect in a relationship, and also one that seems to be the least discussed until too late, is children. Personally,
it's one of the first topics I bring up when I am considering a relationship. I consider this world too corrupt to consider passing along my DNA and
bloodline in. That is how I feel.
I think that before entering into a sexual relationship, it should be discussed, and a legal agreement drawn up and signed beforehand. If you do not
agree on such an important topic, then you really shouldn't be having sex in the first place, and a relationship is probably not a good idea. It would
save people a lot of heartache and bitterness.
An example of what such a contract could look like:
I [names here] affirm that we are entering into a serious relationship, and are planning on having sexual relations. We both agree at this
time, that we do not wish to have children. Should we both agree that we decide to have children at a later time, a new contract can be drawn up,
nullifying this one.
If [woman] decides upon finding out a pregnancy has occured, to keep the child, then she accepts full responsibility for said child.
It needs to be short, to the point, and written in plain english, not legalese mumbojumbo.
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