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Originally posted by Juggernog
Im a single dad. I wont go through the details, unless you ask but my son has been with me for the past 12 years.
My ex has legal custody of my daughter and she lived with her, primarily until around age 12.
At about that time, she started to ask to live with us but she would only do it for about a year, then go back to her moms.
Anyway.. Shes been really getting bitchy lately, so I gave in a bit and allowed her to have something that I was apposed to but something that she wanted.
Now, anything that she wants and I dont let her do, she cries for, literally 3 hours and texts her mom and her friends about how mean I am.
Her mom and I really dont talk that much now and my mom is biased against my daughter in favor of my son.
I love her to death but damn, idk what the hell to do.
what did she asked that you were opposed ? a piercing lol ?
Originally posted by Juggernog
reply to post by Ben81
what did she asked that you were opposed ? a piercing lol ?
Yes, bellybutton piercing and a freaking lipring. which I approved of.
One day your daughter will thank you for everything, and apologize for how she's acting..right now she just doesn't see it.
One day your daughter will thank you for everything, and apologize for how she's acting..right now she just doesn't see it.
She should be thankful you let her do what you did. I got a lip ring when I was younger and my father hated it, when I said I couldn't take it out because it was surgical steel, he handed me plyers and said figure it out. Lol.
Originally posted by Juggernog
Ok, heres what prompted this post.
Tonight, she wanted to go to some thing downtown, with a 17 year old girl, that ive only met 3 times and have determined that she cant drive worth a damn.
I didnt think it was a good idea and she proceeded to throw up the excuses that I never let her do anything and she literally cried for about 3 hours.. nothing i could say or do would stop it, she even told me that she hated me.
Originally posted by SarnholeOntarable
One day your daughter will thank you for everything, and apologize for how she's acting..right now she just doesn't see it.
Mine is 13 too...very testy and of course a product of parenting.I usually get loud and throw a tantrum before I get my way...