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Originally posted by chishuppu
reply to post by AQuestion
when you donate you give up responsibility, that part has yet to sink in, when it does then maybe we can move on. As fot the voting comment you will have to explain yourself.
He has had no contact with the family since 2004, but the CSA said that he has to either pay up, or take a DNA test to show that he is not their natural father. His story will send shivers down the spine of any man who was asked to donate their sperm by a childless woman in the 90s. Back then it was impossible for women to use official sperm banks unless they had a male partner – something that is no longer the case. Changes to the law mean that if Langridge made the donation today in similar circumstances he wouldn't be financially liable for the children, and he has called for the law governing this area to be applied retrospectively. It is thought that there are several other men caught up in the same position.
Originally posted by AQuestion
reply to post by RalagaNarHallas
Dear RalagaNarHallas,
this man in no way agreed to help raise the child and the women knew it their relationship fell apart and now its magically some random gay guys job to take care of the child? why aren't you screaming for the girl who left this poor woman with a kid to raise on her own....guess its elementary school logic boys have cooties and must be the bad ones
He did agree to have a child, he did, he gave his sperm with that purpose. Okay, he is responsible for his actions, why should he not be. He didn't have to participate in creating a child; but, if you do then you should be responsible for taking care of that child. Are you also pro-abortion. That would be interesting.
In the intervening years the lesbian couple separated, leaving the biological mother with both children. She has since started claiming benefits from the State.
Originally posted by SearchLightsInc
Thirdly, the Daily Mail (Or fail to be fair) Is a conservative "news" paper that is notorious for fabricating stories, attacking the marginalized members of British society (i.e, working class, immigrants, benefit claimants, homosexuals etc) And it makes me laugh that many of the threads of the OP starts often have a source link to this site.
How can i be sure you're not Rupert Murdoch!?
Poor man. The other parent (ie the non-biological mother) should be the person paying out. It was the lesbian couple's decision to have a child, and this man made it very clear he didn't want any involvement.
He is only guilty of having a good nature and a bit of naivety. Common sense should take over here, and the CSA should be chasing the ex-partner of the mother.
Daily Mail
Originally posted by SearchLightsInc
Feel sorry for this poor chap but hey, that's conservatism for you.