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Originally posted by sarra1833
....what are some good ways you, gentle readers, 'find' yourselves, reconnect with your ....zen, 'ness, self...
Originally posted by Komonazmuk
Most guys hate to talk on the phone for hours, seriously. I'm sure it smothered the both of you, 7 months and no physical contact? Might as well been an AI program. Don't feel too down, I'm sure you'll get a long just fine. Work on yourself like you said, become content with yourself, regain your confidence and others will flock to you. I read your entire post
I'd say just keep yourself open to the prospect of meeting guys living around you, never know who you'll meet, sometimes you need but start up a conversation with a stranger and then they are a stranger no more.
About the whole phone thing I'm sure after 7 months, it began to feel like a chore(for the both of you), and in all honesty you've no idea what he does in his 'other' time. You'll be okay.
Go see some live music imo, always makes me feel good.edit on 27-10-2012 by Komonazmuk because: f key /= k key
Originally posted by loam
reply to post by sarra1833
Originally posted by sarra1833
....what are some good ways you, gentle readers, 'find' yourselves, reconnect with your ....zen, 'ness, self...
I think you just did by posting your thoughts and reflecting upon the subject.
That and sometimes it's worth reminding yourself that most things pass and aren't as significant as one might initially think.
A willful state of mind is a powerful thing.
You know that saying, "Don't put anyone or anything as the most important thing in your life cuz if you lose it, you'll have nothing"?
Originally posted by AccessDenied
reply to post by sarra1833
I will also applaud your insight. And you are correct..sometimes we don't realize how needy we are till it's too late.
Originally posted by jiggerj
Originally posted by AccessDenied
reply to post by sarra1833
I will also applaud your insight. And you are correct..sometimes we don't realize how needy we are till it's too late.
The word 'needy' sounds so negative to me. Aren't we all needy?
I know I'm going to feel very needy if this upcoming storm knocks out my electricity for a week. I NEED emails from my daughter. I NEED my online news. I NEED my ATS!!!!!
Be right back, I have to go cry now.