posted on Oct, 27 2012 @ 01:43 AM
reply to post by new_here
Thank you for this.
Both of those seem very plausible.
I would like to say that I never presented myself to her that I had put myself on a pedestal. I'm not that kind of person. I am honest and upfront
about my emotions and when I really care for someone, they know it. My lack of attraction to her was one of the key reasons we split up but it
definitely wasn't the only reason. She knew the reason for my lack of contact with her. Do you think she did not ask? She denied seeing someone, many
times. I picked this name on ATS in irony, I suppose. I have a very keen sense of intuition and have learned to rely on it heavily out of its accuracy
throughout my lifetime.
Anyhow, the first reason is plausible but I'll give your 2) more weight as I've pretty much tossed out the option of 1) as of today.
Thank you for your opinions on my questions, I do appreciate it. I did write her an e-mail, not asking for explanations but more-so for closure. She
knows I'm straight forward and she really does know how much I care for her. 7 years is a long time to get to know someone. If she wanted to work
things out with me, all she would have to do is say it. I've made it clear to her what my interests are, in regards to working things out. Probably
one too many times. I'm not going to beat a dead horse and bring it up a fifth or sixth time.
Thank you again