reply to post by smyleegrl
I have recently had a personal experience that i want to share with you.
My son who is almost 19. Just left his girlfriend of 19. They had a 8 month old baby.
She came from a welfare family, and my son felt like he was saving her and helping her. And he thought that was love.
In less than the last month, she has showed her true colors, she has not called to check on her baby in 19 days and counting now,, or called or
They have been seeing each other on and off for about 5 years now. And living together since Jan1 2012.
Committed to each other for almost 2 years.
Her mother has been abusing the system forever, in fact her daughter my sons ex, used to sign a form each month with a fake name so her mother could
receive nursing money for her son, who is approx 13.
She has no nurse and receives over 1200 per month for him. Just by getting ANYONE to sign a form, no registered nurse number nothing. I know this for
a fact cause she 0nce asked me to fill it out for her. I refused...I saw the form.
Her mother was on welfare for years and years, or at least was till recently. As she got reported..
By her Daughter, my sons EX.
The mother of my sons ex has 4 kids 3 by the same man who lives with them in housing and he has his own small business.
They have been investigated over and over for years and he just moves out for a few days then moves back.
onto the story of my son. He has a really decent job for a 18 year old he works in construction and makes 17 dollars an hour, year round. Hes not
rolling in money but has enough to meet the needs of him, his GF and the baby. He pays all the bills and rent. She does not work.
She keeps calling the welfare and food bank and other services to get free stuff, then she turns around and sells it.. My Son started to get pissed,
he told her i make enough you don't need to do that, plus we don't eat the food from the food bank you just sell the baby formula to make cash,
cause our baby is not on that kind.. He told her our cupboards are full of stuff like lentils and beans that we don't eat..
He got really fed up 22 days ago and took the baby and called me to come and get them. She was drunk and well that's another story all together...
for another time.
She called the cops said he stole the baby.. cops came everything was fine for us, but not for her, the apartment was a mess when the cops arrived so
they called child services to investigate her....
In the last 22 days that girl..... that gave birth to my grandson, has not done anything to even ask about her baby. she has a new boyfriend and has
gotten 3 tattoos all paid for with the baby's money from the government. I gave her 22.00 for the bus plus my son gave her 10.00 to get bus tokens..
he did not know i gave her the 22.00. She also got my sons 800.00 in rent back from the landlords with a sob story..
And she has not saw her baby in 19 days and counting. My son and his son live with us, he left her the apt and everything in it. She told him not to
take any of the babys stuff.
Oh yeah and she has a new BF since 5 days after he left...... a man of APPROX 40 years of age, we know cause he called the guys house and asked for
her, and she came to the phone.....Plus she so dumb she left my sons phone signed into her FB and email... Sorry but i just have to laugh out loud for
A old friend who is a lawyer told me that "she was learning to do this without even knowing she was being taught it, its in the family in her
I should of put this in the RANT instead of filling your thread.. Sorry..
My son is going for full custody court in in December.