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There's a way to talk about heterosexuality and homosexuality in a way that's completely independent of preference or what is 'morally' right. Teachers should talk about the biological aspects, the social factors, and promote tolerance. There's no reason to emphasize one over the other.
No. I would say "Don't go anywhere near Billy." I would then tell the school what my daughter had told me. But what does that have to do with being gay?
No. I would say the same thing if she said "Dad, the other girls say Billy is really good in bed." I have a real problem with my daughter engaging in any sexual activity at all. I have no problem with anything consenting adults do.
You just ostracized Billy's parents and Billy, and made them seem evil to your daughter and the school, because you do not see it as "normal", or "moral".
Originally posted by Phage
reply to post by TheMalefactor
Then we agree. The point is children are being taught that there should be no stigma attached to homosexuality. Some people seem to have a problem with that.
There's no reason to emphasize one over the other.
But what you said before seems to contradict what you just said.
Stating that heterosexuality and homosexuality are each equally valid will almost certainly encourage youths who have thought about bisexuality to act on the idea,edit on 10/21/2012 by Phage because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by Wonderer2012
Children to be taught 'heterosexuality not the norm' in Australian schools project
Mr Piccoli defended the Proud Schools pilot currently running in 12 state schools.
But he said the steering committee material "will not be approved by the Department of Education for use in NSW classrooms".
Originally posted by Phage
reply to post by WhisperingWinds
No. I would say the same thing if she said "Dad, the other girls say Billy is really good in bed." I have a real problem with my daughter engaging in any sexual activity at all. I have no problem with anything consenting adults do.
You just ostracized Billy's parents and Billy, and made them seem evil to your daughter and the school, because you do not see it as "normal", or "moral".
If it were a matter of statistics I would agree with you and so would anyone else. It's not difficult for children to understand that that some people are different from most others.
My point was if a teacher ever goes so far as to say homosexuality is "normal" rather than "natural" the statement is inaccurate and bordering on moral proselytizing. It's "natural" however it isn't "normal" in the statistical sense.
Right.
Just the same as I would be livid if a school teacher started telling my boys there is only one right religion.
Right. What is the problem with children being told that gays aren't to be subjected to different treatment because they are gay. That is what the program is about.
but don't place a moral emphasis on why one is better.
I don't have a son but I would not want him having sex as a child.
Then you would have a problem with your son engaging in sexual activity as well..even if it was with other boys I would assume.
I really wouldn't care. I would wonder why on Earth she would tell me about it but it would be no concern of mine as long as she was fully consenting. And, no, I am not into it.
Can you honestly tell me that you it would not bother you if you knew your daughter was getting involved in S&M type sex, and told you that her new boyfriend really enjoys it, and lots of people do it..and so she is learning to enjoy it. Curious as to what you would say to her ?
Yes, it is.
After all it is just another "sexual preference" between two consenting adults
This is the only way that it could be taught. Holistic and unbiased.
Any other way is pandering to one group or the other group and pandering will create confusion and resentment
Right. What is the problem with children being told that gays aren't to be subjected to different treatment because they are gay. That is what the program is about.
Refer back to the previous post and reread the following paragraph ten or so times till it sinks in:
'Halfoldman has the right of it. "I'm also not sure why kids should be taught that only heterosexuality is good and natural. Perhaps it's better to stay silent than teach untruths and lies?"'
www.abovetopsecret.com...
Originally posted by milkyway12
What you do with your life is not my concern, i can ask you to change, and that is it. However, once you begin attacking the beliefs i am teaching my children ( that have been taught in tradition and is culturally accepted .. or was) you are declaring war on my beliefs and traditions to change for the " New Age".
.edit on 21-10-2012 by milkyway12 because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by ManBehindTheMask
so they want to be equal but with special treatment huh?
Why does that not sound equal to me........
equal is equal...................I think all people should be treated equal.......but i dont subscribe to agenda driven crap....edit on 21-10-2012 by ManBehindTheMask because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by Nite_wing
In my local community, it is not "socially" acceptable. However in certain parts of town heterosexuals are considered abnormal. You can usually tell which part of town you are in by the asses hanging out of butt chaps.
Do they sell butt chaps in Oz?
Originally posted by milkyway12
Public schools should protect gays from being bullied, however, if creation cannot be taught in schools, then public schools should have no place in teaching kids being gay is right or wrong.edit on 21-10-2012 by milkyway12 because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by Nite_wing
I have been thinking about this topic for a couple of hours now.
I think I am tired of being tolerant of all sorts of behavior.
I am tired of not being able to speak my mind without being called a bigot, racist, homophobe and many other things.
Originally posted by Phage
reply to post by WhisperingWinds
It is ok for kids to learn from other kids that gays are abnormal and it's ok to ostracize them because of it? As someone pointed out, most kids learn more about sexuality from their peers than they do from any other source.
Children learn, and develop by what they see around them, and it is the right of the parents to some extent, to guide their children as they see fit.
edit on 10/21/2012 by Phage because: (no reason given)