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Originally posted by FissionSurplus
reply to post by the2010apprentice
how you are confusing co-dependency with actual love.
Originally posted by freedomSlave
Pick up a new hobby sitting around thinking about what could of been or poor me doesn't do nothing except to gain sympathy from some people . Frankly I see no point in this kinda threads aside from playing the poor me angle.
That was the line I was looking for .... I been with my girlfriend for 8 years , I care for her and lover her . However if I am not making her happy I would never expect her to stay I want her to be happy , life is to short to and I see it so many times where people are not happy but yet chug along like nothing is wrong . That is not love it is selfishness at it's finest ( I love you don't leave me even if you are not happy ) eta: if one truly cares for some one they just want to see them happy no matter where or who with even if it is not with ourselves edit on 17/10/12 by freedomSlave because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by Miri08
Originally posted by freedomSlave
Pick up a new hobby sitting around thinking about what could of been or poor me doesn't do nothing except to gain sympathy from some people . Frankly I see no point in this kinda threads aside from playing the poor me angle.
I can understand your perspective but sometimes I think people need sympathy and I don't think there is anything wrong with getting and giving sympathy. Sometimes, some people need others to say, "hey, I've been there too." I think that's a great thing about people not something that's bad.
Originally posted by Miri08
reply to post by freedomSlave
Everyone handles things differently