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Originally posted by VoidHawk
Example, Dont comfort your baby when it cries, just leave it to fall asleep.
With advice like that the child feels abandonment and neglected right from day one...and yes that IS the advice that parents in the uk are given.
Well done OP, it needs to be said.
Originally posted by PrplHrt
Personally, I think it's because we abandoned old-fashioned methods of discipline. Things started to loosen up in the 60's and with that slackening came the decline of Western society.
Now any and every depraved act is acceptable and encouraged. We have become Rome at its most corrupt and we wallow in our bread and circuses.
Originally posted by PrplHrt
reply to post by Sly1one
The old methods of raising children produced some astoundingly gifted, intelligent, talented leaders and artists. Pick a famous person from our past, anyone, and consider their probable upbringing versus that of a child today.
This country used to turn out engineers and physicists and doctors. Now it turns out lawyers and massage therapists and rappers.
The child behaves that way because up until then the world did revolve around them...at least from their perspective...you fed, them you loved them, you comforted them, you waited on their every need...so when you reneged on this instilled perception and they act out as parents we should understand and take responsibility for our roles in creating that...
Originally posted by PrplHrt
Personally, I think it's because we abandoned old-fashioned methods of discipline. Things started to loosen up in the 60's and with that slackening came the decline of Western society.
Now any and every depraved act is acceptable and encouraged. We have become Rome at its most corrupt and we wallow in our bread and circuses.
Now any and every depraved act is acceptable and encouraged. We have become Rome at its most corrupt and we wallow in our bread and circuses.
Originally posted by PrplHrt
reply to post by Sly1one
The old methods worked. Could it be that the new methods are not?
It is my humble opinion that there are too many distractions and shortcuts in the modern classroom. Kids don't have to work for the knowledge anymore. It's all pictures and flash with the computer and no labor because they get handouts instead of taking notes.
It has been proven that when a person writes out notes at a lecture they remember the material much better than they do when they type it into a word processing program on a laptop.
There's something to be said for a pen, some paper and a simple textbook. No distractions.
We've turned the classroom into an entertainment center.
Originally posted by PrplHrt
reply to post by Sly1one
I'm saying start the kids with the basics in their formative years then move them to tech.
I don't want to derail the thread too much.
Originally posted by watchitburn
I say screw the kids.[/quote[
and then to follow that up shortly with this:
I blame their parents.
so its the parents fault but screw the kids? I'm not following you on this...
Sure I got into tons of trouble when I was a kid, but I was respectful and polite to adults. I didn't destroy or vandalize other people's property.
and this isn't because you are inherently awesome and respectful now is it...its because the life you lead up till that point fostered respect and politeness...a very fortunate circumstance that isn't universal...so to expect all to be as you were is to expect all to have the same upbringing you had...and in the end all we would have is you...which is apparently quite okay with being judgmental and critical of children...whose lives you know nothing about...you are fortunate to of had an upbringing that fostered the traits you seem to value...
again not because you are inherently awesome but because somehow your path lead you to be that person...and were not all on that same path...you are proud of who you are and there is no shame in that...expecting others to have the same values as you is not only impractical and unrealistic...its conveniently self serving and gratifying to think of yourself as "better" than those who don't possess your same valued traits...
I didn't expect everything to be handed to me either, and it wasn't. I've had a job every day since I was 14. I helped my parents pay the bills.
Wait a sec...I thought you blamed the parents? Judgmental criticism from a perspective that is of absolute ignorance since you aren't a parent yourself...
I don't have any kids, and I don't have any answers. But from my experience, a larger majority of kids these days are worthless, lazy little turds.
I had a couple kids walk right out in front of my car the other day and I had to slam on the breaks...I rolled down the window and looked at them like...uhhh look both ways? They gave me a look of "screw you...ill do what I want"...I got pretty upset and judged them pretty hard but then considered that they were first children and probably had parental circumstances that led them to behave the way they do...so then I threw the judgement on the parents...who I then also realize...probably knew no better considering their childhood and how they were raised...