reply to post by Flyzoid
She is on a power trip, it will either last and she will be moving her own way. Or it will be something that she needs to get out of her system for a
while and return to a more saner approach. But really $250 for a haircut, either that is some fancy haircut complete with a pedicure and all the
bells and whistles, or I am sorry to say she got ripped off. There is a difference between treating yourself and just blowing money and needless
things you know.
But hey whatever, we all do that sometimes and once in a while, it's no biggie unless you make it one or she continues to do that constantly and it
gets worse, in which case. You got's problems. If she never had her own money before then ya she will want to spend it, but if she gets uppity and
nuts with her new-found fortune
Then plan A would be to tell her straight up what you think. And if she don't listen and gets all evil, then
its time for plan B...Here is what you do and as Darkblade71 said....You go take her out to dinner or something, you know fancy romantic sh*t, and
try to work things out, I seen it in a movie once and the TV said women like that stuff. And as we know the TV never lies about such things.
So after all that then her guard will be down, and that is when you get all down and dirty...You know what I mean.
And then, you know the
rest...Bada bing, bada boom...End of story.
And if she is still evil after all that, well then it's time for plan C....Here is what you do, at an undisclosed time and after you get all your
things in order and definitely see a lawyer...You go take her out again, you know same old drill. Only this time during the whole thing, you tell
her that you got to go and use the bathroom. And then while in there proceed to climb and jump out the window and run like hell. But scope the place
out first to make sure they have a window, or a back door something you can leave by unseen. And after you get clear away, and while she is still
waiting for you to come back from the bathroom, you make yourself scarce, basically make like a ninja and disappear.
It would be best that you get all your contingency plans in order before then, kids, bank accounts, place to stay or move into, and all the rest,
you may even need to chance your name just in case she finds you again. But even if she does, just act like you don't know her and she is a crazy
person and even call the cops on her and have her committed, or get a restraining order against her.
But you know, ride it out and see were it goes first before all that, because it could just be a phase. Oh ya most likely a phase.
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You have been enlightened.