posted on Sep, 17 2012 @ 11:20 PM
Hahaha I wonder how many private messages this poor girl has received by now
But to throw my 2 cents in - find something, no matter how small, which is a positive out of the situation.
Focus on that positive, strive to achieve that positive - your mental state is one of those unique things that you have control over. If you sit there
and wallow in your sadness, it will reinforce itself, and you will stay sad.
If you think to yourself, "Wow, I'm free, and life is amazing. My mission is to have fun and see what life can throw at me!" then your reality will
be defined by your attitude.
Change your hair style, but some new clothes that make you feel beautiful (or hot, whatever type of person you are), and grab your best friend and
force them to take you out for a night on the town.
And always, always remember that pain, and love, is temporary - it is only there as long as you feed it for. The pain will disappear, and in 10 years
time you'll struggle to remember the douche bags name