posted on Sep, 17 2012 @ 09:03 PM
reply to post by blackmetalmist
I could barely eat my salad today
Right there - there is your proof that Love does indeed exist within your heart.
The remainder of your comments in all posts on this thread leads me to think that your fate in this world is to NOT be with this person - move forward
and forgive him - that will bring you untold joy within yourself - I guarantee it - why - because it is the hardest thing you will ever have to do.
1. You have given him prior opportunities to address your concerns and it has failed.
2. You have decided to "break-up"
Now is the time for you to prove to him what he has just missed out on - forgive him from your heart and do not look back. You will smile for the rest
of your life as to how simple and beautiful it is to do.
Don't go looking for a another relationship, that philosophy is doomed to failure - you seem like a beautiful soul - the relationship will find you -
especially if you keep that smile going.
Try it - you have nothing more to loose but the whole world to gain.
ETA: I was engaged to be married and she became unfaithful - it upset me to no end until one day about 3 weeks later (after breaking it off and
dwelling in my own self pity) a total stranger gave me this advice upon over hearing this conversation - I tried it bacause I needed to get my head
right - the day I did it was the day my life changed. Now married to "the one" and beautiful kids to boot - life is beautiful.
17-9-2012 by Sublimecraft because: (no reason given)