Ego is one thing fellas though reality is something else. Take THIS
large specimen of a woman for example. She's quite large and could toss a a man or two at the same time. On the other hand, I'm sure it has it's
disadvantages as well as these large women intimidate many men and could have hard time finding a date. Could be an advantage or disadvantage as any
and all people possess their strong points and their weak points. A good partner will appreciate the strong points and assist their partner in the
weaker areas out of sheer Love and Respect for the person. Right? Hope so.
Never had to hit a woman, though if my 'person' was at risk, at the very least, please do your job and refrain her when necessary. If she persists
throwing wild punches and acting irrational, well, you do have a right to defend yourself and she will be expecting that as she should. Sometimes it
takes a good smack to wake 'some' people up from their 'condition'. People come in all shapes, sizes and conditions with a unique background,
experience and history. Obviously, this should be of consideration in the reasoning process before things get physical.
A woman will most likely have a hard time respecting a man she can push around, naturally I suppose. Now their not likely to say such things, though
their not likely to tell you when to make a move either.
Most arguments are mental and should/could be handled with reason, if not, take a time out or have a mutually admired/trusted elder, preferrably a
trusted unbiased family member to assist one with the reasoning process.
Basically, what any person needs/wants whether of the pantied or briefed variety, both sexes may apply on that one.
is to be listened to (not
heard), respected (without presumption) as a 'being'. Speak to another as a Soul first, then appreciate the container they came in. Love and
Understanding can most likely settle any matter, less one is drugged out of their cranium especially with the man-made, addictive, expensive,
Long topic, though after a few dates, one should make sure they are 'marrying' one for the Right reasons and Not under false pretenses for if that is
the case, it just won't last, with or without the scars but hey, not all relationships are meant to last forever. One may get lucky and meet 'a',
soul mate for life, if not, grow from the experience and try again if the relationship cannot be reconciled after much effort. I certainly do Not
agree with the idea that one should be stuck with another for life due the signage of one silly piece of paper or another. That's a contract and it
doesn't have much to do with Love or one's development.
I haven't met what I would consider The right woman (two strong possibles though was married at the time) for me to date though I can honestly say I
loved them all to date for their own uniqueness, sexiness, intelligence, blablah. My first longterm woman was 3 years, 2nd (married) was 5 years, 3rd
(married) 7 years though Wow, I learned alot about myself along the way as I'm sure my maties did as well. No hard feelings on either side, smoothe
divorces, irreconcible 'differences' though Looking forward to the next one or two if necessary though if I ever get married again, I won't cave into
an ultimatum, as my weakness is from the heart, though hey, I signed a paper (marriage contract) with the Best Intentions.
It's important to note, their Is a conspiracy here in the US (each country unique situation/customs) to divide the family unit and disrupt/confuse the
sexes of their 'natural' state or roles they most ordinarily would accept by nature. Tough topic, nother time perhaps, maybe/maybe not?
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