posted on Sep, 10 2012 @ 10:28 PM
Don't compare yourself to others.
Throw off all the mean and ugly things that people have put on you and learn to like yourself so that someday you can start to love yourself.
It is not an impossible thing to do. It's kind of like riding a bike. When you fall down, you get back up and keep going.
Don't obsess on your imperfections and don't beat yourself up for them either.
It helps me to reflect each night:
What did I neglect to do?
What could I have done better?
What did I do that was good?
What did I do that was bad?
Then LET IT GO.
Most people self-talk. Is yours positive or negative?
I am always talking to Jesus and He brings me great happiness because He accepts me as I am, flaws and all and knows I am a work in progress.
Cure? When you can love yourself just as you are let that be enough.
I hope something that I said helps.
Edited to add: Forgive yourself for screwing up.
edit on 9/10/2012 by sad_eyed_lady because: (no reason given)