Originally posted by Realtruth
Originally posted by hotel1
Its because they know were on to their little scam
Although you may feel this way I think it's only fair to not take a shotgun approach, and place all females in a single category.
I would appreciate that this remain a non-hostile topic, even though I personally understand marriage is a passionate and emotional topic for many
folks that have been down a rocky road.
Your input is greatly appreciated though.
Im not sure I want to get involved much in this conversation, but cant hep myself any longer.
What I take a problem with is placing females into a single category. Males as well.
Maybe it is where I live. Im not sure. I have traveled the World as well, so have a good cross section of Humanity to observe.
But how can you say that, when its true. There may be pockets of Women out there, but I see the same thing I see in the housing industry. Cookies
I need no one saying that I hate Women, or all of that BS, and that I am bashing, or any other fallacy of logic designed to cut Men off from
expressing themselves in this regard. I see that alot by Women. Any form of criticism, constructive or not, is automatically attacked from a very
vicious emotional fem fatal, as being anti feminine, and sexist. This tactic cuts off any real communication of problems between the sexes. This
"defensive" mindset. It is actually very harmful, because it establishes in the minds of the young, that one particular sex can do no harm, or
wrong, and in fact, has been the center of abuse for ages. I see this "group think" not just in the sexes, but races as well. I wont open that can
of worms here, but it is very evident.
Men no longer have an opionion, or perspective in these regards. Any perspective is automatically sexist.
I think more Men are looking for other Men as well. Men have had enough with Women as a group, and are moving towards their own sex for intimacy,
understanding, etc. Men are turning towards the Bi, and gay lifestyles, as if it were going out of style. Which it might be.
There is a very strong undercurrent of resentment and hate towards Women by many Men. It is happening for a reason, which is not what Women will tell
you, because they are perfect of course, and have no character flaws.
You can flame all you want ladies, but the truth is self evident. We are running away from your arms in droves for reasons you know, not just because
"its in the air, or the water". Duh.
So the reasons why marriages are not working out, start long before marriage, and even long before a Man or Women even desires to get married. The
problems actually stem from childhood, as a collective problem in our Society.
The way we were all raised. The BS we saw in all of our own families. The lies. The hypocrisy. The faking. The empty words.
That is the problem. Humans. Humans have major problems within their own selves today. Hence, Humans look to the "external" to be filled. To have
love. Etc. Instead of looking within.
Woman have become Men, and Men have become Women in our Society. The roles that is, and sometimes even as far as the physical manifestation of those
roles and reversals.
We are at the most critical point and juncture of our species. Right now. Deep down everyone knows it, but still rejects it.
Until that time as Humanity finds itself, these problems will only continue, and get worse.
I see many things taking place in the future, and one of those things is a War between Man and Woman. A real War, not just the mental, emotional,
power play war, that has been going on here since the 60s.
A real bloody War is coming. It will be a fight over children, over each other, over individuals, over selves. Etc.
Both sexes have had enough, and when all other things in life finally get Biblical, and Earth encompassing, which is appears to be doing right now,
the sexes as well will turn on each other, and attempt to wipe each other off the face of the planet.
The only thing that has prevented that from taking place already is the perpetuation of the Human race, to manually conceive and bear children.
That process is no longer needed to produce children. So, seeing each other as obsolete, and full of hate for each other, the sexes have nothing left
in without holding their hatred for each other to fully come to a head.
Mark my words, a horrific War between the sexes is coming. I dont know when, how, or any other details, but I do know its coming.