posted on Sep, 8 2012 @ 01:02 AM
For those who shout and scream "They shouldn't flaunt it in public!", stop all the music videos and lustful movies where two people of the same
gender are humping on one another. Stop all the bars and dance clubs where people are practically having sex on the dance floor. Stop all the other
instances, including movies where sex is the norm, stop modern culture all together where sexuality is at every turn. Gays aren't the ones flaunting
it in public, the straight people do it much, much more often, but our brains have tuned that out becaue it's "normal" for us. We see straight
sexual flaunting over 278 times a day. We see gay sexual flaunting perhaps once a month. Which one is really at fault here?
You whine and cry about gay being wrong because they aren't like the rest of us who settle down, get married and spend our lives together... ok, ok,
the 20 some percent that don't end in divorce anyway... yet when they say that's exactly what they want to do, you say "NO, marriage is for a man
and a woman". You can't get angry about them not doing it and at the same time say they aren't allowed to do it. Are you afriad they'll do a
"better job" at it than we have?
If you want homosexuality kept out of public view, then you're going to have to allow for a private venue. You tell them to keep it behind their own
doors, then you take the door away. You can't have it both ways. Either permit gay marriage or deal with the non-marriage of gays. We have them stuck
in the perpetual "dating mode" that most of us went through in our late teens and early 20's, then settled down, found the person we wanted to
spend our lives with (ignore divorce rates at this period) and that was that. Gays can't do that because they're not allowed to get married. What
option do they have? Well, you don't want them married, so they're in dating mode.... forever. Make up your mind what you want. Of course most gay
people have adapted and go on with their relationships, lasting decades, much longer than a lot of straight marriages do these days, yet they aren't
given the same basic rights, they have to be considered "room mates" or "special friends", not spouses like they really are just because of
bigoted idiots who can't handle it and keep a double standard.
It boils down to this: Either allow gay marriage or don't complain about gays in public who act like they're teenagers dating. It's one or the
other, you can't have it both ways.