Originally posted by phroziac
Girls dont want guys who are loving and caring (such as myself), they prefer hot guys who drive ferraris and are jerks. Fact of life, and thats why i
doubt ill ever date again.
This is what the OP meant about people having a bad attitude towards others because of their experiences with other people.
It's a really bitter attitude to have, because women aren't all the same, and you're tarring an entire population because of a very small
percentage of people you've met.
I've only ever dated one guy who drove, incidentally, he became a jerk and I chucked him. Been with my guy who is loving and caring for five years
The funny thing was, when we met, I thought he was the dogs dangly bits, I thought he was utterly gorgeous, but as time went by, and he became more
nasty, he became physically repugnant to me.
In relation to the first post, I've dated guys who were not good looking. I've dated guys who were good looking. Funnily enough, there were no
relationships that were better than others, no men who stood out as being a knight in shining armour and paragons for their pigeonhole.
One of the 'most not so good looking' guys I dated had some kind of thing about him which made him really attractive to women. It worked to such an
extent for him, that he was totally ok about cheating on me.
One of the better looking guys was also very loving and caring, to such a degree he was smothering, and actually threw a full on tantrum, throwing
himself down and beating his hands and feet on the floor because I didn't text him back as much as he would have liked. (My mum was going into renal
failure and so I wasn't always available immediately).
The question itself - Can You Love Someone Who is NOT Physically Attractive To You?...
I think the answer lies entirely within each person.
I know people who absolutely hate what they call 'ugly people'. They don't like to even talk to them. This in itself is an unattractive trait in
Being able to see past an unconventional exterior is a blessing.
I don't care what anyone says, people these days are very superficial about how people look.
Sometimes it's not always obvious why we like someone, sometimes it's obvious from the very start.
Attraction is felt with more than the eyes. It's felt with the heart. *gag*