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Originally posted by phroziac
Girls dont want guys who are loving and caring (such as myself), they prefer hot guys who drive ferraris and are jerks. Fact of life, and thats why i doubt ill ever date again.
Originally posted by phroziac
Girls dont want guys who are loving and caring (such as myself), they prefer hot guys who drive ferraris and are jerks. Fact of life, and thats why i doubt ill ever date again.
Originally posted by Hefficide
About a decade ago a good friend of mine came to my aid at a time when I was deep in the hole and sort of lost. She was not attractive to me in the least and definitely not my type.
But... after she stood up for me when nobody else seemed very interested in doing so, things began to change and I found myself beginning to see her in a different light. She became attractive to me based upon who she was and not what she looked like. The who part overpowered the what... after awhile I found her utterly stunning and beautiful.
~Heff
Originally posted by shapur
So yes physical looks are important if you want to wake up next to somebody for the next 50 years or so,and so is having a good personality.
Originally posted by nixie_nox
reply to post by SaturnFX
One thing I will say about online relationships is that they have changed teh way people meet each other. But I went and researched what happens once people meet. Couples that have been dating online for years even, have finally met in person and have both been like: meh. And went on to be friends
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That's true.The online thing can be deceiving. You can go too far with the truth for example, then when you finally meet it can be a watered down version of what you imagined. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. Offline works better in the long run though because there is a physicality that comes into play. It helps keep things real.
Originally posted by DeepImpactX
That's true.The online thing can be deceiving. You can go too far with the truth for example, then when you finally meet it can be a watered down version of what you imagined. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. Offline works better in the long run though because there is a physicality that comes into play. It helps keep things real.
Originally posted by nixie_nox
Originally posted by DeepImpactX
Originally posted by nixie_nox
reply to post by SaturnFX
That's true.The online thing can be deceiving. You can go too far with the truth for example, then when you finally meet it can be a watered down version of what you imagined. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. Offline works better in the long run though because there is a physicality that comes into play. It helps keep things real.
I am not denying what you are saying. But this was more about relationships that went on a long time online. They did plenty of video, pictures, so they know about family history, friends, activities and hobbies and daily life.
I think you could know more about a person through online than your rl friends, but no matter how many pics you send, or videos you take, there is a certain mystery when it comes to chemistry.
I have a best friend whome I have talked to everyday online for over 5 years. I know his habits, his family, his work, everything. I know more about him and understand him than anybody else in his life. But we have never met. Now, since it has been SO LONG, it is hard to believe that we have never met, but I know him that well.
I am hoping to get enough money from my accident settlement to actually fly to meet him and have our families meet finally. (we have children the same ages)
I rely on him for emotional support more than any other person. He knows me that well.
But I am sure that when we finally meet in rl, it might be strange. But I can't wait till I can give him a hug.edit on 1-1-2013 by nixie_nox because: (no reason given)
Um......could you edit that please? I have to put my "reader cheaters" on to read that. I think you did a typo with the quote brackets to where what you replied is VERY small.
Not a big deal, just very hard to read is all.edit on 1-1-2013 by DeepImpactX because: (no reason given)
Never mind.edit on 1-1-2013 by DeepImpactX because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by nixie_nox
Originally posted by DeepImpactX
That's true.The online thing can be deceiving. You can go too far with the truth for example, then when you finally meet it can be a watered down version of what you imagined. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. Offline works better in the long run though because there is a physicality that comes into play. It helps keep things real.
I am not denying what you are saying. But this was more about relationships that went on a long time online. They did plenty of video, pictures, so they know about family history, friends, activities and hobbies and daily life.
I think you could know more about a person through online than your rl friends, but no matter how many pics you send, or videos you take, there is a certain mystery when it comes to chemistry.
I have a best friend whome I have talked to everyday online for over 5 years. I know his habits, his family, his work, everything. I know more about him and understand him than anybody else in his life. But we have never met. Now, since it has been SO LONG, it is hard to believe that we have never met, but I know him that well.
I am hoping to get enough money from my accident settlement to actually fly to meet him and have our families meet finally. (we have children the same ages)
I rely on him for emotional support more than any other person. He knows me that well.
If we cannot reach each other for any reason, we actually feel lost and panicky.
15 years ago, we would of never have known each other without the internet, it is strange to think about.
But now the internet opens doors that would of never have been there before. It is sad to think of all the missed opportunities before.
But I am sure that when we finally meet in rl, it might be strange. But I can't wait till I can give him a hugedit on 1-1-2013 by nixie_nox because: I suck at quoting quotes